How to Improve One's Personality

[metallica]

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by keep on trying and trying and trying

[abuot]

be yourself..bad/good personality is just relative

[psyd_1]

love yourself more
trust in your capabilities
dont let other put you down

[xtian_hero]

don't do drugs...

say no to drugs..

[kenoidz]

i guess you couldn't achieve that in an instant...you would be needing a lot of time to adjust yourself for who you wanted to be...but you must first know who you really are...and if you've done that it would be much easier to be who you wanted to be....unya if ever you feel you failed trying to be that type of person, might as well be the person others know of you...who knows, they might want it that way....

[peg]

Any inputs on how to improve one's personality. The do's and don't. Building self confidence/ self- esteem.... etc.

let's take this case which i found out from the other furom... and i qoute:

"...I kind of have a problem. I don't like my personality, or the way I treat others, or my sarcasm. My friends have changed me to be something that I don't want to be. I don't even remember who I use to be. But what I want to be is a very sweet young woman. Someone who makes everyone smile, and brightens up the room when she walks in. Or when she goes to someone's house to visit for a while and then leaves, the people in that house can't get over how sweet she is. That's who I am. That's who i want to be. How do i change things from what they are now to what i want them to be? Any Advice?"

i think, di mana cya problem basta honest lang ka sa imo self.
if you want to be shweet, maybe be a little more sincere and genuine.

[mata_hari]

be sensitive!

consider the things that can hurt you, please be made aware of it

smile a lot but not to the extent that you could freak out the people around you

be nice, respect ideas and respect individual differences.

if you want to speak your mind, do it subtly

[klavel]

if you have nothing good to say...just shut up. use euphemism --- it's milder..(instead of saying "ugly", say "not so pretty")..it's not that you're not being honest for they obviously mean the same...

embrace diversity --- respect others' differences

and

if you feel crappy, don't drag people into it.

[kenoidz]

correct!...if u really feel crappy....just don't drag people into it...it kinda suck when u get dragged by a person feeling crappy...

[thadzonline]

You can be the person that you want to be by first acknowledging who you are. Awareness of self brings about wonderful insight and enlightenment. You cannot change something you do not know, so know thyself and gain wisdom from that knowledge.