HELP Hindi mi close ni Mama

[tophat]

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di sab ko close sa akong mama but in my experience..that will come to pass...and when it does..she is still your mother who gave birth to you. you were in her womb for nine months. we are part of our mothers....always will be... in my case i went away...so far away..only to return when mama was dying...and now that she is gone....somehow i miss her....even if we were not close.

[RemohDude]

grabeha pod ani oi, ako close kaau mi my mom, pero ako papa dili kaau..pero still taas ko ug respect nila, kay sila may nag support nako until ko nakahuman ug study..

[tamse]

ako di man mi close but di sad nga di nko xa ma please.. ako bya ang baby..hahahaha... baby kabaw sa family..hahha... btaw2x, ok ra na. sauna sad ingon ana ako mama sa akoa, busy, no time, bsan i do my best before murag wa ra niya.. karn pa niya ko na appreciate nga tguang na cla nga mo tabang jud ko nila..char!

[Venus914]

Same here. My mom and i are not close. But it doesnt bother me. I mean, i read somewhere that you dont actually have to be friends with family or relatives. You just have to love them...from afar. Don't try too hard.

[jelousofthe1]

..ay close mi sa akong mama...as in mura ra mig barkada..she's my all jud...as in...hmmm...grabe man sad mi bonding gud...di ko ka feel nga naa mi gap...

[ashmae_01]

hhmmm dnt knw kng close ba mi sako mom cguro smtyms bt most of d tym mag away jud mi ahehe...mybe bec. we hve similar attitudes

[m!nyanG]

i can say na suod mi ako mama,,,bt not dat close jud..hehehe
pnagsa rami away,,mgka peace dayon....
i love mah mom soo much!

ahahaha

[bytesnsuch]

pasensyaha lang cla, bacn ga-menopause, mulahi man gud ilang batasan ana na stage.

[furaieda]

y man?
murag d nako xa maplease in any way
i hope its not yet too late

i am a mother too. siguro , ayaw lang e please permi imong mama. and sometimes, have d courage sad nga maka talk ka niya or open up everything to her nga kamo rang duha. thou its murag KIWAW but as a mother, kasagaran mama, magpaka inahan jud na . and i know even if unsa pa ka stone imong mama, once mo hilak ka and mo open ka niya how hurt you are or unsay problema nimo, for sure she will reach out for you. Ako, i am very strict to my daughter and my siblings na mga baye. Wala na mi mama kay ga una una og migrate sa heaven, pero among mama, mura ra sad igsuon namo. Strikto ko in a way i have to correct unsay sayop because i been there. i stand as mura na sad og inahan. I know sometimes sayop or me sobra ra ko, and everytime magyawyaw ko, dili sila maningog. And if mangatarungan sila, ako sila kasab an maayo, kay feel nako ge tubag tubag nako nila, pero i know they just want to communicate mao na nga i always find ways na ma sturya sila in a nice way para makabalo ko unsay ilang problema. Magka close mo sa imong mama if e start na nimo ang dapat.Just open up everything to her. Even if maghilak pa ka.

If ever pwerteng dramaha na nimo, nya ingnon ra kas imong mama og DRAMA BA NIMO! aw usa ray pasabot ana.. WA GYUY PAKI IMONG MAMA! but since she's your mother, siguro dili lang sya aware unsay iyang sayop because INAHAN man gud sya and for her SHE KNOWS BEST. Nya huna-huna a, temporary ra ta tanan sa kalibutan, figure it out. Og mawala si mama simbako, dili naka makakita niya hantud sa hantud. She will remain as memory. So atleast bsag dili mo close, bsta tell her you love her and let her feel that you do . Makahilak nakog tagok ani! Segi oi.

[radnop]

don't worry.. di ka nag iisa..
d sd mi cLose sa ako mama.. pero okay ra.

para nko di na ok... ganahan diay ka nga dili mo close sa imo anak kung ma parent napud ka? nyways, i don't know what happend to some relationships between parents and kidz basta para nko, mas nindot ug close mo in so many ways and reasons..