HELP Me, my so-called Boyfriend and his OTHER girl

[~akoni~]

ur in love, congrats

that bad?!?!
hay..

as in..i simply want a peace of mind...

[Sol_Itaire]

@TS, pa advice ani ni Sol, kay wayok kaayo ni cya parte og gugma, hehehe...joke...

OT:
kaw jud hap!

@TS: I believe in women respecting women. Try to be in that other girl's shoes. Kamo man gud duha sa imo bf kay sige pa deceive niya. Ayaw nalang mo sige text2x niya kung ingon ana naman lang.

[~akoni~]

lagi,nuh...hay!

[Fern]

this is actually a dilemma i have right now..

this started out last year. my boyfriend had a gf then that resulted nga gibuwagan nako xa..
actually, nahulog na ako ang third party since ngkauyab sila before kami, but i didnt know then nga naa xa uyab. when i found out, ako daun xa gbuwagan. we were separated for 4 months. by august, nkigkita xa nako balik.ask ug second chance..since, love paman nko xa nisugot but in condition that he will tell me everything about the girl and he will answer all my questions. needless to say, he did that.he also said that bulag na jud cla sa girl.
ingon xa nga nabuntis na nya ang girl before but nakuhaan.dili xa nahan xa mubulag cause he doesnt want to let the girl feel nga gbiyaan lang nya sa ere after nla.he also asked me na dili lang daw nako xa pugngan if magtext2 cla sa girl kay sooner or later mwala ra jud xa sa life sa girl. niana ko nga ok lang so long iya ko sultian if gatext2 cla.he said ok. wala namo gipabalo ang girl ngbalik mi kay basin lagi daw masakitan ang girl.gatext2 man pud mi sa girl. (that's how i know nga ngkauyab cla before namo. ngtext2 man mi sa girl but this is a different story.)
the girl also confirmed nga wala najud cla and then di napud cla mgbalik.right now, gatxt2 ra cla from time to time, kmaustahan and all. but now gnaawayan na namo sa ako bf. kay kung magtext cla dili xa musulti.musulti lang xa if masakpan na nako sa iya phone. iya irason kay dili man daw importante.nangumusta raman daw xa. i guess, nahadlok lang ko nga magbalik cla and mausab napud ang tanan. ikapila nako namugos nya nga mgbulag nalang mi kay aron naa ko peace of mind kaysa naman nga kami bitaw but dili ko mahimutang, but di jud xa musugot. he said that in time, masultian ra jd nya ang girl nga kami na. dili man pud cla gakita sa girl kay layo man ang girl. his family knows na kami napud...ask lang ko sa inyo mga advices kay willing man ko mubulag nya pra ma peace nako. thanks kaau for sharing your time.

inday.... basin ganahan ka nga ikaw ang gusto nasad ma buntis

[ranmauelle]

if ala ka peace of mind karon tungod sa ON pa mo sa imo bf, then buwagi sya.
anyway, if meant for each other jud mo, maski unsay mahitabo... kamo man jud.

ako opinion lng, sakit kaau na sa babae katong 1st uyab kay magcge mo ug text pero blind kaau sya na kamo na diay sa laki. mura na hinuon sya ug tanga. but it is up to you, TS. kaybaw ko na u already know what do to.

swerti-a sa laki no, gidawat pa japon nimo sya... hayssss ang love talaga.. sana swerti sab ka ana na laki because you deserve to be happy and loved.

[ierolennail]

TS, Sol was right..."women should respect women"..its so painful knowing na your deceived. if you were the girl,you'd be hurt when you'll know the truth..but it was on your advantage and not hers mao you stil continue what you're doing..if it dsnt give you peace of mind then put a STOP to it..nobody said you have to suffer for this.. i almost got involved in a 3rd party too but i avoided it.."guilt will eat you up"..i believe in that.

[~akoni~]

if ala ka peace of mind karon tungod sa ON pa mo sa imo bf, then buwagi sya.
anyway, if meant for each other jud mo, maski unsay mahitabo... kamo man jud.

ako opinion lng, sakit kaau na sa babae katong 1st uyab kay magcge mo ug text pero blind kaau sya na kamo na diay sa laki. mura na hinuon sya ug tanga. but it is up to you, TS. kaybaw ko na u already know what do to.

swerti-a sa laki no, gidawat pa japon nimo sya... hayssss ang love talaga.. sana swerti sab ka ana na laki because you deserve to be happy and loved.

thanks so much..
i hope so he realize how lucky he is...

[~akoni~]

TS, Sol was right..."women should respect women"..its so painful knowing na your deceived. if you were the girl,you'd be hurt when you'll know the truth..but it was on your advantage and not hers mao you stil continue what you're doing..if it dsnt give you peace of mind then put a STOP to it..nobody said you have to suffer for this.. i almost got involved in a 3rd party too but i avoided it.."guilt will eat you up"..i believe in that.

i know that...
mao gani tong pagkabalo nako nga naa xa uyab, ako daun xang gbuwagan because i know if i were on the girl's shoes, i wont like it too...

everytime, makigbuwag ko nya, dili xa musugot...
every woman man cguro, myt feel that if pugngan ka love jud ka sa guy...
he's asking for time...

[tyne]

Decide wat u think is right.kaw rapod masakitan ana.

[the Messenger]

every woman man cguro, myt feel that if pugngan ka love jud ka sa guy...
he's asking for time...

I think he's just begging for time to figure out how to keep both of you. Reasons to let go:

1. He got his ex pregnant.
2. He got your permission to maintain contact with his ex. What for?
3. He got you fooled. If all he cares is about keeping you, his actions show otherwise. He really cares about not hurting the feelings of the ex and doesn't seem to mind that both of you have to lie to suppress the truth.

I don't think you can trust him. Na-ah.