Why lovers can never be friends?

[giver_bert]

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For somebody who has once shared his/her individuality to somebody and that person as well.. it's indeed pretty hard to maintain friendship with him/her.. but definitely it's possible to end up being friends...

though, it sounds like one may be trying to put his/her cart before his/her horse or at least, your fun-times friendship before the breakup.. even if a breakup is mutual and there are no complicating factors, it's going to take a while to untrain yourself from thinking of her as "honey" or "sweetie" or "baby." one may need to make some space from each other, so you can see her/him with clearer eyes and a less-entwined heart.. even though you both seemed to know it was time to move on, you need to give yourself the space to be on your own a bit and rekindle your relationship with your single self.

personally, i think it's only then that the new friendship can blossom.

[monrose29]

it depends...

[nunobone]

but mostly that wont work..
coz, in most cases, plastic!!!

true, mao na hardwork jd cya ug patience.

but once friends na mo balik, close friends na kaayo mo basically because of your history together nga daghan na mo na-share...

depende ra sad sa history ninyong duha.. coz if its really suck then... impossible.. if ang reason is "your ex was f*ngered/had *** with some of your friends and her reaction is just a "smile".. i think that would give you goose bumps everytime you see her.. lols.. grabeh sad noh??

depends on the reason why you guys broke up... like your ex replaced you with your friend.. like "Dawson's Creek".. pasa2x.. lols

peru the reason also that it wont work is, pride..
"its her fault!, its his fault!, etc!.." = plastic jud!

[DebutsAndIDos]

I am friends with my ex-es. It's not plastic and it doesn't require a lot of work.
We don't consciously seek each other out. But, if we do see each other, we stop and say Hi!. We take the time to catch up on each toher's lives.
You know, you spend years of your lives with someone. Then, because you feel that there's no more future for both of you, doesn't mean you can respect the past you had each other and reminisce on the memories.
It just takes respect, and an open-mind.

[elord]

u may forgive but you'll never forget the nasty things he did. Especially if the result of the break-up is third party.

unfair man sad if he lang what both he/she? mas accepted pa!

[sassy_suzzy]

my exes are now my good friends...

as soon as the healing process is over and okey namong duha, you can be good friends, ngano gud dili pwede?!

[Disturbed_Angel16]

there is a saying that friends can turn into lovers, but lovers turn into friends never..... i guess when lovers break up they olways thought of their partners mistakes..... maybe that is the reason why lovers can't be friends... it's just too hard for them to accept their own mistakes...

[clarkhkent]

bcoz of the positive and the negative gravitional FOOL of the earth towards the SUN 24/7!

bitaw tinood jud ni cya pero after ninyo mag break anha ra ka maka realize nga yu are the best of frends man diay!!!

[pinkiepooh]

time heals all wounds they say... it juz needs some time for all the hurt that the past has caused both parties to subside and be healed... and if both parties have already accepted the fate of the relationship, then i guess only then can they be really good friends again...

---> yeah....

it just really depends....

[splendid moonlight]

sometimes it is better to be strangers than to be friends knowing u've been more than that once upon a time.