My boyfriend and I talk everything and anything under the sun. First, you start off by asking him how his day went? Anything interesting happened earlier today? Then take it from there. My boyfriend is like yours hilomon but you really have to make him comfortable. Try to get into his interests. Ask something what he is good and he'll surely share it with you. If he doesnt have gana to talk just don't push it lang. Just ask him what seems to be the problem or anything bothering him? Open communication is the key for a successful relationship. =) And I agree with michaelocana dont ask him "unsa imung ganahan sturyahan" its just not the right approach.
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