You two still love each other but for odd reasons, you just can't be together

[lecreigh]

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it depends on the reason and the extent of my love for the guy... pero sa akoa lang karon panahona mas matimbang mn sad jud akong family.. pero depende jud if grabe bah akong gugma ana nga laki....

[kaub@n]

kung against ang ako family sa ako gf then they can't force me to leave my gf... ako man ang magkig tipon/magkig minyo sa ako gf, dili man sila... kung unsa man gani ang consequences then so be it, ako barogan ang ako decision.

I don't think that's the right reason why you should choose your gf...
Your parents may not be the one to live with your GF, but kung naa ka problema o ang inyo anak, kinsa man kuno ang dali maluoy ug masakitan nga magsud-ong nagkalisud ka...ang imo amigo? imo katrabaho?huh...hopefully sila....

I'm not saying nga dili ko infavor sa imo desisyon...I just don't agree with your reason...

PIS...

[kaub@n]

ako kay mo fight jud ko.. like unsa gibuhat nako sa akong bf.. nka experience jud ko ani.. akong dad gusto siya na buwagan nako akong bf ron coz dili cya ganahn but ako dili jud.. until cge me away sa akong papa og mama.. dili me magtingog.. pero akong bf wala cya kabaw ani na situation kay di ko ganahn na mag problema cya og di ko ganahn masakitan cya.. pero wala man jud mabuhat akong family kay cya man jud akong gipili mao nka realized na jud sila na happy ko niya mao wala na lang sila manghilabot..mao happy kay me.. kabaw ka ang parents wala mana mahimo sa imong ganhan or gusto...kay kung gusto nimo dili bya ka nila ma pugngan bya ...and by the way mo celebrate name sa among 3rd anniversary this dec.3..

Magdepende gyud na sa reason nganong dili nila ganahan ang imo bf....All I know there'll always be a reason nganong moreact ang parents...

But dili nagpasabot nga kung gusto ang iyang anak sa usa ka butang,,,wala sila mabuhat....not convincing...

[blueberry_muffin]

ako kay mo fight jud ko.. like unsa gibuhat nako sa akong bf.. nka experience jud ko ani.. akong dad gusto siya na buwagan nako akong bf ron coz dili cya ganahn but ako dili jud.. until cge me away sa akong papa og mama.. dili me magtingog.. pero akong bf wala cya kabaw ani na situation kay di ko ganahn na mag problema cya og di ko ganahn masakitan cya.. pero wala man jud mabuhat akong family kay cya man jud akong gipili mao nka realized na jud sila na happy ko niya mao wala na lang sila manghilabot..mao happy kay me.. kabaw ka ang parents wala mana mahimo sa imong ganhan or gusto...kay kung gusto nimo dili bya ka nila ma pugngan bya ...and by the way mo celebrate name sa among 3rd anniversary this dec.3..

so ikaw ra nag fight para sa inyo relationship? you said man na ur bf didn't have an idea about what happened between you and your parents...pero impressive baya imu gbuhat. it shows that you're really into your guy. but wouldn't it be more fulfilling if kamo duha ni fight or diba ang GUY jud mismo para u'll get a sense of reassurance that your guy also loves you as much as you love him? mao man gud ni issue nako before...i wasn't ready to fight for him yet kay i know that my parents only wants the best for me and besides, i've been with them for all my life. so murag i owe them my respect and obedience, and that would mean sacrificing my relationship with the guy i love. my guy knows everything about our forbidden love. he said he is willing to fight for us but i told him it's not the right time yet coz i know we are not yet ready. sad jud kay we both want to be together pero ako ang dli musugot for the very reason na hadlok ko sa ako parents...dilemma jud kaau!!

[blueberry_muffin]

your family must have valid reasons to go against the relationship. And if you think these reasons are at the very least true.. then why fight the people who are there for you and always will be no matter what? LOVE is overrated nowadays. If you yourself know it's not worth it.. then don't push it. Ikaw ra gihapon maglisud in the end.. or the relationship will not survive. CAN YOU REALLY BE HAPPY KNOWING YOU'RE HURTING THE MOST IMPT. PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE BY BEING WITH THAT PERSON?

i totally agree with you. parents don't wish something bad for their children...they wouldn't want you to be with someone whom they think can't give you the kind of life they would want you to have. pero ang nakalisod gud kay if you two really love each other.

[blueberry_muffin]

naa napud ko lain Q guys...related sa topic gihapon share your answers kay this would help some couples who are confused whether to let it go or to hold on...

You've been with your loved one for quite some time but you know your parents or one of them doesn't want your partner. they've told you that he/she isn't just the right one for you due to some reasons. you realize that your parents could be right. so despite the fact that you and your partner really love each other, you decide to follow your parents' advice because it isn't wrong to be a good child. you start telling your partner that you need some time off the relationship and you also start looking around for someone who might luckily interest not only you, but your parents as well. QUestion: "is this fair for the person you love? or is this a signal that you might as well just let him/her move on without you? when deep in your heart you know you still have feelings for each other..." will you take the risk of letting go and let destiny lead your way?what will you do??

[A.D.H.D.]

naa napud ko lain Q guys...related sa topic gihapon share your answers kay this would help some couples who are confused whether to let it go or to hold on...

You've been with your loved one for quite some time but you know your parents or one of them doesn't want your partner. they've told you that he/she isn't just the right one for you due to some reasons. you realize that your parents could be right. so despite the fact that you and your partner really love each other, you decide to follow your parents' advice because it isn't wrong to be a good child. you start telling your partner that you need some time off the relationship and you also start looking around for someone who might luckily interest not only you, but your parents as well. QUestion: "is this fair for the person you love? or is this a signal that you might as well just let him/her move on without you? when deep in your heart you know you still have feelings for each other..." will you take the risk of letting go and let destiny lead your way?what will you do??

i wouldnt say that is wrong or right. one, why would your parent/s doesnt like your partner. is it because he/she came from a poor family? or he/she doesnt have a goal in life? or he/she is not educated? check out the reasons why your parent/s doesnt like the one you chose.. there are some that are just too petty then explain to them why you think it is shallow. however, there are times man gud na ang parents naay makit-an na wala nmu nkit-an or dli ka ganahan mkit-an. so evaluate sad ug y ganahan ka sa person or tinuod ba jud ang ingn sa imung parent in an objective manner. sayang man sad gud ang inyong na invest for the relationship, both you and your partner. nice man nang gi-fight jud ug uban pa, drama ang effect bah...but be rational about it. nindot mn jud nang love kau nmu and all that stuff but sometimes, situations like that need rational thinking coz if you let your emotions take over, like "i love my boyfriend but i also love my family" or "i want to be a good girl/boy but i dont lose my boyfriend" and stuff like that maka-confuse jud. kabalo bya ka sa imung parents how they perceive things. so kabalo jud ka unsaon nimu pgpasulod sa idea na ganahan jud ka sa imng uyab karun. lisud ang mgpa objective sa mga panahon na involve jud ka but this would be helpful. i know coz i've been there.

[blueberry_muffin]

i wouldnt say that is wrong or right. one, why would your parent/s doesnt like your partner. is it because he/she came from a poor family? or he/she doesnt have a goal in life? or he/she is not educated? check out the reasons why your parent/s doesnt like the one you chose.. there are some that are just too petty then explain to them why you think it is shallow. however, there are times man gud na ang parents naay makit-an na wala nmu nkit-an or dli ka ganahan mkit-an. so evaluate sad ug y ganahan ka sa person or tinuod ba jud ang ingn sa imung parent in an objective manner. sayang man sad gud ang inyong na invest for the relationship, both you and your partner. nice man nang gi-fight jud ug uban pa, drama ang effect bah...but be rational about it. nindot mn jud nang love kau nmu and all that stuff but sometimes, situations like that need rational thinking coz if you let your emotions take over, like "i love my boyfriend but i also love my family" or "i want to be a good girl/boy but i dont lose my boyfriend" and stuff like that maka-confuse jud. kabalo bya ka sa imung parents how they perceive things. so kabalo jud ka unsaon nimu pgpasulod sa idea na ganahan jud ka sa imng uyab karun. lisud ang mgpa objective sa mga panahon na involve jud ka but this would be helpful. i know coz i've been there.

the reason why dle ganhan imu parents sa imu uyab kay tungod he came from a broken family and somehow irresponsible pud ang guy sa nakita sa imu parents. pero the guy has changed na, but sad to say, it's too late to undo things kay wla naman jud xa na-uyoni sa parents nimo. and bisan unsaon, firm nmn jud cla nga dili jud cla kay tungod sa ila nakita sa imu uyab during the early times of your relationship...unsaon mani?

[JX]

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it is more than fair.. parents will be parents and its up to the couple to prove them wrong of whatever it is they dont approve..

[amfoi]

against imu family sa imu loved one and you have in mind that family must come first BUT you still love your partner... mu-let go nalng mu or will you fight for your relationship?

mao ning resulta sa akoa.. nag lain ang buot sa akong gf kadtong pag graduate nako kay g pa ila2x nako cya sa akong mama.. dayun wala kaayo cya g pansin sa akong mama.. unsaon man gud ba,. puro man mga maldita pod.. nahan man ko beh.. after my grad. gbulagan ko nya.. for that reason. and situation sa among life.. mao na karun paet kaau.. ga antos ko sa ana nga butang.. krn cge ghpon ko ligaw sa iyaha.. ga uli rako ug davao para nya.. arun lng mag balik mi.. pero hantud krn.. question mark lng ghapon?? mao ga libog nako ug wa nako kblo unsa akong buhaton..

barato man ang metros sa pisi.. pero wala pako plano ana.. hahaha