i'd rather choose my family.... next to God.
work is important for survival of our family, but if you're loosing your family
because of your job. then quit that job and find another where you can
spend more quality time with your family.
your employer can always find replacement for you when you're no longer
productive or useful to them. It's good if they have retirement benefits for
you then if not, sorry na lang. the efforts you've invested on them has no value.
But you will always be a treasure in a familyno matter how old you are and will
take care of you no matter what happened.