HELP I pushed her away and now I'm broken

[Soul_Captive]

@soul

very true, shes really mad at me bcoz akong batasan...sigh, i dont know and ur right i want to get back at her, coz murag gamay ra kaau reason nag buwag mi and then naa cya ka date2x lain.. anyway im not judging her, maybe i realyl hurt her so much.. sigh i dont know..

Ngkastorya namu bro? What is that batasan na di niya ganahan? Have she been against it for a very long time? Is it that bad, and are you willing to change it for the better just to have her back?

[Baeybe_Bryce]

whew...anu ba to...i can relate wid dis..the best thing to do bro is talk to her..make her understand...if alam mo mali ka den say sorry..if di ka niya pinapakinggan..and not to mention she's dating someone else den i bet she's really not into you..gotta think about it..let her feel dat u need her and tell her how much she means to you...if dat wont work and she's happy now...just be happy for her.

[rl]

somebody change my TITLE from Broken hearted to Help i pushed her away, kinsa maka change sa title? please MODZ ayaw e change ang title

i did everything na gyd , nothing works, i will wait till shes healed

[Baeybe_Bryce]

no dont pity urself...haizz...be patient na lang...show her dat she belongs to you...simple...but if she does not appreciate it and she's happy wid someone new..be happy for her na lang...dont force things,,,even if she's healed if she does not choose you den set her free...

[topaz]

this happened to me and almost the same jud ang story..
im speaking from experience here..

my ex-bf is so strict,then, to the extent na dili ko nya sugtan mulaag unless xa ako kuyog. and then if mananghid ko nya na mulakaw ko with friends, awayan sa na namo before ko nya sugtan. magselos xa sa ako mga guy friends even with my nephews. awayan na namo pirmi until the time na napul-an ko.nakigbuwag ko nya. i told him what i feel,he said that he understands. that he will not do it again. and that he will give me some time to be with friends and families and all. i gave him chance over and over again but the same faults are made over and over again. until such time i broke up with him and i dated somebody. it wasn't easy to let go.cge xa hangyo nako to go back. na dili na mausab but i had it.i know mausab ra sad. i loved him so much but i had to let him go cause i'm afraid that the love i have for him will be replaced with hatred and i dont want that. so, i cried and eventhough i'm dating there was still the urge of going back to him. but unless, he understands me and meet me halfway, i cant go back..
lesson learned nalang sad cguro na bro..

[jlodarl]

a lot of disagreements and fights... same as sa akong relationship which was also ended days ago.. from the first time you hurt each other its the girl whom was hurt bad kay most girls kay emotional.. na keep in mind na niya how it really hurts then usban pa jud sunod sunod... and for me that makes me very tired even though I love him and really care for that 5 years relationship I need to let him go and find himself.. dating is one of the consolation of myself trying to move on and forgot the person who broke my heart and hurt me.. and it really help me a lot..

just let her go bro just give yourself time and enjoy yourself... let time pass and if you're really mean for each other.. so kamo jud.. one day... someday.. mag kasugat mo.. there you will know

[crush_23]

Hi guys, never tried posting about my life here. this is my first time ever, mu try lng ko,.. coz im really hurting now..

a brief background on my relationship b4, we've been together for 1yr and 3months,and now its all over, the reason why is that we kept on fighting , we had so many disagreements grabe to a point naabot nami og "kwenta2x" i know i did wrong about that, but g trigger mangud nya, and now, wala na gyud mi , i hurt her badly .... i tried giving time for almost 2weeks, i tried to reconcile our rel, but all the hurt were still there , she really cannot 4give me talaga , she said , d gyd kaya akong batasan, and now shes dating some1 else, its really hard for me, i've tried everything to move on, but i still want her back, .. sigh... i know its my fault and everything gyd.. i really love her. and now shes dating some1 na.. i dont know... i just want to let this thing out.. thanks 4 listening

haaay....pasensyahi kay naka relate jud ko aneh.....kafaetz sad anah woi.....in the first place why u pushed her away man woi nga simple ra man au nang mga away2...pwd ra jud na reconcile....ug dili man guro rizon nang away para lang dayon mo let go ka.....awa nuon mahay ka...tsk...haaaaaaaaay di nalang ko mag ingon aneh...pero anyway, let time heal d wounds nalang...... if love jud ka niya, kung mobalik ka she'll accept u and watever it takes u shud prove to her how sori u are in leaving her......maybe nagdate lang sya para di au niya mafeel ang pain ug sa lain niya makita ang comfort nga dapat unta ikaw nag give niya.....but i ges it doesnt mean she's dating gipulihan naka niya sa iya hart....all u nid to do is communicate with her,panguyabi sya balik and do anything u can to win her back...work hard for it..kay if she truly loves u, she'll forget d pain she'd bin through para lang makuyog mo balik... *sigh* hahay gugma....patya nalang ko....hehee goodluck nmo tawn.....wish u d best.......

[vienzel]

if u have disagreements...if almost everytime, basi these are signs that ur not meant for each other. m sorry...i know disagreements are normal sa relationships but not to the extent na irreconcilable na ang differences. unsa man, ang arguments are petty ones or existing problems na gyud bet. u and her? give it a time as they say...

u and i for sure are different but ka-relate ko when it comes to arguments. i have a 7 yrs. relationship na maghilak ang simana na di mi mag sige away. i dont know and i just got tired of wishing things will change for the better. it didnt it out so gud for us eventually ky we got separated for gud...i have moved on and i have no regrets ky i did my all mn gud pod.

i wish u luck and be strong!

[brendz]

oh dat really hurt i had a 1 year and 3 mos relationship with my x bf sad, i split with him cuz of his attitude olso na daghan ug excuses and everythng but not like urs na nag "kwentahay" mo dats too much ra jud, too rude.. nywayz, in ur part, unfair kau kay nka kita daun ug bf imong x dat instantly to think nga year mo kapin together, doesnt she love u dat much to replace u immediately?

well, life must go on,, move on..

[captstar]

nobody is to be blamed man sad but u...but the fault isnt on you ra jud...naa sad fault imo ex...well, kng d jd xa, awh ayaw lang pamugos...there's still so many girls out there that might be better than her...