
Originally Posted by
JRG_959
polygamy has nothing to do with a man's need for sowing their wild oats. It is naturally a man who has these wild urges. hence, they need to let it out of their system before they get married or stuff. This does not apply to women for some reason. And don't give me your BS about women having the same urges as men because women are more industrious and hardworking. that's why God made women the child carrier instead of men. Men have to be bread winners while women tend to the home and children. and yes, I know society has changed and all but that is the original norm, that is how things were meant to be. Women can still have careers, just after the kids are old enough to take care of themselves. I'm sorry, but prudence really plays a big influence in this country,and that is how things should be. Sad to say, Western cultures seem to penetrate more into the minds of our generation today more than ever, than our own local traditional culture. so sad.
What made you say that it is only the men who have the urges? Is there a biological explanation for this? Women have that sexual urges, too, but are just acting on them more responsibly..Hence, we go back to the immaturity of the supposedly stronger ***..One more thing is that you are saying that guys are being promiscuous during the dating stage in order to be rid of the urges before they get married, so how do you explain the rampant philandering among married men?
I accept the fact that women are more industrious and hardworking, to name a few of our good traits, but those are not enough to back up your argument that women do not have the sexual urges that men have..As for the societal norm that you refer to as the original one, how do you know that it is the way things should be?
On the issue of promiscuity, I think it is all about maturity and responsibility..Being mature enough to deal with the fact that not everything you want should be yours and being responsible enough in dealing with one's own needs without compromising other people..