HELP How to make the MOST out of my life?

[raphz]

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at this moment I am totally confuse, I have figure out that the moment I resign in my job, I can start the things I want to do..yet I dont know why, I cannot find any enthusiasm, any purpose that I dont where to begin.

My depression sets in and its getting worst..I join other activities helping other ppl in that way, I wont be focusing w/ my life and depression..but I cannot possible be in service helping other ppl 24/7...that being alone, really scare the hell out of me. My friends have their own job, own life..and here I am going to 30's and I am back to stage one.. the friends I use to talk too, I seem to be losing all of them, they seem all so busy, I just feel neglected..and I dont know where to start..waaaaahh...i feel emotionally wreck..but at least i'm starting to write again..those few months while I was working..i am so unhappy, .. so uninspired..so depressive to the point I hardly join any forum, blogging or group discussion..i just lost any reason...

help..maybe u guys have encounter this situation..or suggestion in bringing back my enthusiasm in life

try to read "Purpose Driven Life"... it really helped me twice in my life. i hope it can help u too.

[kinamutchara]

ei, i feel you. assuming we live halfway of the same street.
anyhoo, invest your time in the society...be interactive.
explore your passions in life....books, culture, talent, travel...
anything that you are good at.
join social gatherings and clubs...im sure you will be able to interact with people.
and most of all...dont close ur door or shut people away...
how you live your life right now is all about the choices you made.
you can always chose to be happy........

i can be your friend

[teomargulbin]

reading your words seems like you are a good reader you had a lot of bank word in your memory i do suggest you to read to discover your purpose in life....why i exist in this world? please do take time to read the purpose driven life by rick warren...you can find it in any book store specially christian book store....

[cosplay]

Take note that you should be able to know your purpose. Otherwise, if you do not find out the meaning of your life, you might just decide to end it. THAT in itself is a bad thing I wouldn't recommend.

[she_babymo]

Live one day as if it were your last...

eat as if it were your last,

bathe as if it were your last,

spend time with your loveones as if it were your last,

kiss as if it were your last...

I've tried it, it wasn't the best day ever but it was a day worth living for..

[princezzz_pucca]

life's sometimes like that... but look at the brighter side of it...

[toushiro]

If you have a special someone, spend time with him all the time if possible.

[May Oropesa]

I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through right now... As for your question, my suggestion is... Do not depend on other people on how you are going to feel or what you are going to do about your life. Think: What makes you happy? And then GO for it! Do not allow yourself to feed on such negative emotions. Happiness is a matter of choice. And live one day at a time. Tackle things one baby step at a time. Do not worry yourself about things which have not happened yet. You'll only ruin your day. Strive to be happy. Smile and the world smiles with you. Cry and you cry alone. That's a fact about life. So cheer up! Count your blessings!

[jlodarl]

I exactly experienced the same feeling you have right now..... for 5 years I been depressed and trying to solve my issues by myself.. its like you dont belong to anywhere in anything.. I been to many jobs.. and if I feel unhappy I resigned.... and been always like that for those years.. now this year,I just realized and know.. being with someone that makes you feel you are cared for and you belong to someone is just the reason of everything.. feel being love.. part of their life... who understand you and support you.... I really dont know how to explain it.. but I am back on track, happy and busy...

PLease STOP THINKING NEGATIVE THINGS... that's all the depression comes from..
THINK OF WHAT YOU HAVE>>> How lucky you are.. not what you dont have..
BE SOCIABLE..

[babygin2005]

hey!! get a man...ma thrill jud imo life if ok inyo relationship...not in the sense that you will do something illegal with him not in the context of marriage...my point is that, you will have someone to talk to, to care about, and cares for you...but i think this is hard to do if there is no man available for you...but i think that somewhere out there, deserves of your love..just pray girl..God is always there to listen. He is the perfect lover.