Why do men fall in luv with B**ches: From doormats to dreamgirls.....

[JawBreaker]

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maybe because... they dont set any rules.

FREEDOM tingali from the latigo of the kumander... har-har-har!!!

[flik]

its nothing but normal to hate the person.the ex was only carried away by emotions. i wont say that its the ex's or the new girls fault i would say it the guy's fault.

klaro kaau na nga ngcourt na ang guy b4 they went their separate.dont tell mkapasugot dyun sya sa new girl in just a day.that would a superman thing if he can do that.in that case there are already some agrrements between the him and the new girl before ngsplit cla sa iyang ex....so blame it to the guy...

yes it is normal to hate the person, but that isnt an excuse to behave in such a morbid manner. you can easily say that coz wala man ka or mo ka witness to the things she did. i completely understand her reactions but i wont tolerate it.

but anyways, i posted that not to argue on whether hus mistake it was. but rather to point out that there is a different side to the story of how come some women who are well-mannered tend to be labeled ''b------s'' when they really are not.

nagcourt man ang guy or wala, ang important dha na ang babae wala ni kagat kai she is very much aware na naa pay unfinished business ang guy. and hey, it did not take the guy one day (just to clear things up)

well if thats the case then the act of the ex is very unethical...
im not saying its your friends fault what i was stressing out is its the guys fault.you clearly stated there nga wla sya mkagat its bcoz he has still an unfinshed business.so it wwould clearly say that the guy already courted your friend while he was still with his ex...am i right?

so its the guys fault...if the ex behaved in a morbid manner as what you say it is then the responsibility of they to defend your friend as her bf.right?if hes letting that happen to your friend then i would say that he didnt defend your friend.so blame it to the guy again...and if he is really serious with your friend and i suppose he is then he better tell his ex to better shut up and stay put coz all her efforts are already worthless...

correct me if im wrong again...im just airing my opinion with regards to the situation/information you are giving me.peace....

[tsikay101]

you clearly stated there nga wla sya mkagat its bcoz he has still an unfinshed business.so it wwould clearly say that the guy already courted your friend while he was still with his ex...am i right?

telling someone how u feel and the act of courtship are two different things but telling how u feel may be a prelude to courtship. so with regards if ur right, i wud say no.

if the ex behaved in a morbid manner as what you say it is then the responsibility of they to defend your friend as her bf.right?

yes it is his responsibility but tell me, how do u stop a woman's rampage when it comes to love? that wud be pretty hard dear... trust me

and if he is really serious with your friend and i suppose he is then he better tell his ex to better shut up and stay put coz all her efforts are already worthless...

u really think a woman with a bleeding heart and wounded ego wud head ur plea to shut up instantly, just right there and then?

correct me if im wrong again...im just airing my opinion with regards to the situation/information you are giving me.peace....

no problem! and hey OT naman ni so hope nagkasinabot na ta. :mrgreen:

[apple_jane]

Kapaet! I experienced this my boyfriend was snatched from me. Pero cguro it was for the best cause there are somethings that maybe the other person has that you don't have. I mean there are a lot of factors in this scenarios. Although, you will hate this so-called B--- but then again if you think about it rationally you will see that maybe they are really meant for each other.. sakit man cya i-accept pero you have got to think also that it takes two to tango.

[klavel]

people tend to label the "3rd party" or "other girl" as B---h..maybe bec. out of our rage, for the fact that bf cheated..and we feel that bf's "other girl" should have known that we exists (the current gf)..in other cases, "other girl(s)" don't have any knowledge that bf is currently unavailable, so it's really not their fault to fell for our bf's and eventually bf leaving us..perhaps, the problem lies within us "the current gf, now soon to be ex"..or we lack something, like time that bf feels being left out alone, etc...

so being labeled as "B---H" is no big deal..it's just a word..and for guys, before jumping to another relationship..make sure though that you're free, to avoid hassles in the future..

[flik]

so to avoid being branded as B----* dont be fooled by liars. thats the problem with you girls dali ra kaayo mu mailad...ayaw mu pailad you have brains to think and to rule over your heart...think twice before engaging into relationship and better be cautious next time...

[d.m]

da gugma lage ba...uros2 jud....for me,way mahimong "3rd party" kung way lake nga mangaliwa..not unless ang babaye juy mangitag way nga mailog nya ang guy...in other words,its case to case basis...thats just my opinion.thank you

[tsikay101]

so to avoid being branded as B----* dont be fooled by liars. thats the problem with you girls dali ra kaayo mu mailad...ayaw mu pailad you have brains to think and to rule over your heart...think twice before engaging into relationship and better be cautious next time...

sometimes, man gud we say let our brains rule over our hearts pero kun na inlove na, asa na kaha ang gpanghambog na brain?! (di ra ni applicable sa girls ha! hasto mga mga laki apil mo ani!)

mao nay gugma period.

[flik]

so to avoid being branded as B----* dont be fooled by liars. thats the problem with you girls dali ra kaayo mu mailad...ayaw mu pailad you have brains to think and to rule over your heart...think twice before engaging into relationship and better be cautious next time...

sometimes, man gud we say let our brains rule over our hearts pero kun na inlove na, asa na kaha ang gpanghambog na brain?! (di ra ni applicable sa girls ha! hasto mga mga laki apil mo ani!)Â*

mao nay gugma period.

yeah you are prtly correct but dont tell me every relationship starts with gugma period right away...there is still so called getting to know period.at this stage you should scout or know more of your partners personality.so the heart will not rule the brain at this stage... be aware of those persons nga maayo kau musulti...

to tell you frankly ladies if you meet a guy or if a courted you unya confident kaau then d gyud mgkanga2x kung manguyab kuyaw na na.i think most of you ladies get fooled by this.if he can do that to you how much more sa other ladies...

ky kmi mga guys gni manguyab dn murag mglisod ug sulti kna tinuod gyud na.maulaw pu bya mi mga guys...naa pud bya mi ana uwaw...

[tsikay101]

@flik

"think twice before engaging into relationship"

question lang, kun ikaw naka meet ka ug girl, gnahan ka niya, mana mo ug gettin to know, kahibaw ka unsa iya mga flaws, kbaw ka nga play girl ni sya etc. pero still gnahan ghapon ka, lahi ra jud imo na feel para ani na person, ur probably inlove with this person, ur happy with this person, unsa imong pamation heart or brain?

mao ra na akong point dha. dili ko mag pina SAFE, para lang di ko masakitan. kai kun in-ana imong buhaton, i doubt ull ever be truly happy in ur love life.

and besides, tagsa nalang ang laki nga sa sugod pa lang tinarong na ang tuyo. sad but true.