HELP I can't accept how my girlfriend can easily replace me

[akosabni]

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bro, na'ay naka daghan ug time for relationship, karon? if wala g'pahon bro, ayaw na lang ug waste sa imong time thinking of her 'coz it won't still work

deal with it bro, happy na imong uyab, wala na'y away, why can't you accept that? ... ug free na sab ka

[akoniikawni]

yes that is what im doing right now... but what I'm regret of is why karon pa ko kita sa tanang effort niya... in fact naay 1 time ngbuwag mi but siya maoy niadto sa amoa para makig talk ug makig uli.. im so ashame of myself..but akoa lang ba i admitted na sayop ko..but just a short span of time dali siya ka replace i think siya sad sad-an.. niingon nako niya sa una na to stay away from that guy...in fact thats one of the reason why we have conflicts...its so hard to believe coz I really trusted her ug buotan jud to ako ex..the only reason she gave me why she diverted herself to that guy coz ang lalaki nitubos sa tanang kasakit na ako gihatag niya.. question.. why him.. I know she's friendly but of all people why him...anyway I can't change the fact..i need to move on.. but not that easy..

[emperadorse28]

been there bro... same situation...
pero acceptance ra bro... not that easy... pero trust me...
look at me now very much happy and contented being single.. no regrets... kay maski magbasol pka wla nakay mabuhat...

just take it one step at a time... ako btaw work rjud ko.. got a stable career descent job.. what more can i ask for..
besides i have my family and friends with me...

[Mabix]

dont count bai. 2yrs?5yrs?8yrs? wats the diff? when you're in a relationship same rna. sakto sila, acceptance rna

[silversurfer]

bro, don't waste your time wishing that your ex will came back to you and you would accept her with open arms, didn't it cross your mind na even when you where dating, the other guy was also seeing her? at that early of your relationship she dump you for the other guy, see things as they are not what you wish them to be. Even if she came back to you the thought of the other guy will haunt you and it will create a greater conflict. There more beautiful virgins to choose from...if sayangan ka of your relationship mas sayang imong time contemplating that she would come back to you...time for you to move on! get on with your life, you survive before she came into your life..i don't see why you can get a better life after her...it her loss not yours

[GOSPELofROCH]

hhmmm...let me share u our lab story sa ako x...wahahahahaha

after a month namu nagka uyab ni larga silag manila cuz family problem and still i've been waiting for her until december ug txt rmi kutob nga pagkauyab maski gimingaw gi agwanta..hehehe so pagjnuary we decided na magkabuwag cuz wna na siyay sure if mubalik ba siya...so sayang au akong time nagw8 niya and jst heard d news recently na nana daw siya sa cebu krn frm her frnd ug wla njud siya nagparamdam nko bt still ng w8 ra japon ko hihihi wapa man sad ko ktag lain ....lolz )

mao na bai kalimti 2 siya napay daghan babae dha maymahay rna sila kadugayan awa nya hehehehe

[Velvett]

mao nay gi ingog 'life'

[Baeybe_Bryce]

__the best thing you can do is to talk to her for the last time,tell her how you feel and ask her to go back to you again,just in case,if she refuse then tell her you're doing it because you love her if she choose to live separate life then it just mean..time to move on...at least for the last time you told her how much you value her,..
If she really loves you,she will not let you go but if she's ready to give you up then set her free,...
Someday you will get rid of that pain and you will tell yourself,i did my best,i have my own life to live too.

talk to her and ask her out if she refuse then bro,..gotta go home alone and live your LIFE.

LIFE is spelled L-I-F-E not G-I-R-L.

[akoniikawni]

thnx.. sa advice yup i think not now i have to give credit to myself first.. in fairness sad sa babae buotan jud siya caring kaayo.. that is why sakit sa akoa na makarealize lang ko kung huli na ang tanan...actually contento na siya nako... but of course i think this was not plan.. let say nalang.. maybe theres a reason why we end up like this...actually nakig amiga nako niya then I started to forget everything sa among past... but once i see her still naa pa koy feelings niya and i believe siya sad naa pay feelings nako...one time ngpost ko out status message ug ako gibutang ngadto is "at last i've found a girl for me" she reacted first...hahai libog ko.. but anyway i have to move on.. i don't want to expect from her anymore.

[Baeybe_Bryce]

__If you know she still feels the same way for you den GO! get your girl back!

U let her go once don't allow it to happen again,ikaw na ngsabi she still feels for you.
Watcha waiting?actually pareho lng tau but wid my case i am not taking "giving her up" a choice.
As long as alam ko she still loves me mag kamatayan man di sia makukuha skin ng iba.
but if she will tell me that she doesn't love me anymore,il set her free at least masaya na cia.

Bro,fight for her if you know it's all worth it! sometimes people leave in order for them to see who will run after them,maybe she's waiting for you to make it up for you both.