For Girls, How do you define "space and time apart"?

[if_i_aint_got_u]

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ka lisod pud ani ois... bcin na behind d rison ani... hehehehe!! btaw ka libog pud ani murag... tinood cguro ang kanta.."if d feeling is gone".. grrrrrr... after 1 month, bcin mo balik..i hope so.. sayang pud ang inyu relationship ..

[johari]

if after 1 month dli gihapon siya pa tawag kana lain na jud cguro na! ayaw na pangulit pirmi kay mka irita jud na!

[baboy]

yeah mao dyd sayang sd oi.. kadugay na namo nya ma inani lng .. pero i'll fight 4 it ...
& dli na dyd magkulit, sometimes mn gd cge tag pangotana..

[winter]

maybe she's asking a month to think things out.. to clarify her feelings for you kung unsa man jud..

[omad]

in my POV, there's just two reasons why she did this:

first, maybe she wants to be alone, do a deep soul searching without you serving as a distraction. maybe she wants to really find out how she feels for you, if she'll gonna miss you after a month without communications or not. all those bickering, all those fights and correct me if I'm wrong but what I understood about "pangulit/magkulit" pertains to trust or your lack of it right? women hates partners who don't trust them and vice versa. she wants to know if you're worth the trouble (fighting) she's been having for awhile now and sadly it might take it's toll on her. the outcome might be beneficial for you so don't bother her with your "pangulit" questions again if she'll lower the flag and continue on with the relationship.

second, maybe it's her way of saying it subtly to you that she wants out and she just can't say it to your face because of how long you had this relationship with her. she's getting both of you ready for a smooth transition into singleness again. one thing I noticed though is when you said:

"ako sd nakatok sd ko dli pd seryoso skwela nanigowang nko ani hehehe!!.. i really love her so much & i know love dyd ko nya.."

I apologize for judging you but it seems like you're not serious with your studies. for all those times you've been together (three and a half yrs) she already knows you inside and out. because of this, she would always have this question at the back of her head if your ambitions and aspirations in life are for real and by the looks of it, it's not sooo convincing. you see, love can do a lot of things, it can do wonders but it doesn't feed your family, it doesn't clothe your kids nor put a shade above their head. I may sound sarcastic here but I think your woman is a practical person. she wants somebody who's serious in life, ambitious and have plans set up for the future. by the sound of it, you have a long wayyyy to go. I hope she can wait for that moment.

these are just my opinions.
take my advice for what it's worth.

[winter]

in my POV, there's just two reasons why she did this:

first, maybe she wants to be alone, do a deep soul searching without you serving as a distraction. maybe she wants to really find out how she feels for you, if she'll gonna miss you after a month without communications or not. all those bickering, all those fights and correct me if I'm wrong but what I understood about "pangulit/magkulit" pertains to trust or your lack of it right? women hates partners who don't trust them and vice versa. she wants to know if you're worth the trouble (fighting) she's been having for awhile now and sadly it might take it's toll on her. the outcome might be beneficial for you so don't bother her with your "pangulit" questions again if she'll lower the flag and continue on with the relationship.

second, maybe it's her way of saying it subtly to you that she wants out and she just can't say it to your face because of how long you had this relationship with her. she's getting both of you ready for a smooth transition into singleness again. one thing I noticed though is when you said:

"ako sd nakatok sd ko dli pd seryoso skwela nanigowang nko ani hehehe!!.. i really love her so much & i know love dyd ko nya.."

I apologize for judging you but it seems like you're not serious with your studies. for all those times you've been together (three and a half yrs) she already knows you inside and out. because of this, she would always have this question at the back of her head if your ambitions and aspirations in life are for real and by the looks of it, it's not sooo convincing. you see, love can do a lot of things, it can do wonders but it doesn't feed your family, it doesn't clothe your kids nor put a shade above their head. I may sound sarcastic here but I think your woman is a practical person. she wants somebody who's serious in life, ambitious and have plans set up for the future. by the sound of it, you have a long wayyyy to go. I hope she can wait for that moment.Â*

these are just my opinions.
take my advice for what it's worth.

well said..

[baboy]

lage well said dyd.. a2 na time man gd wen my dad died 2 yrs ago mora btaw kog nakalitan kay 4 months ra iya sakit dayon nwala na dayon cya ... mao 2 4 pla ka yrs morag blanko ako hona hona ba dli katarong sa pgbohat mga things especially sa ako studies plus naa pay mga problems but i realized now to be really serious in things especially my studies .. kay mag unsa nlng ko dli mo move on ... realize it..

LINTIK NA PAG IBIG!!!

[P-Chan]

/gg na ngita nalang ug back up

[klavel]

my gf decided na time-out sa daw mi 4 1 month kay iya feelings 4 me dli na daw pareha sa una.. pero tingala ko ning kalit raman og inana a week ago.. nag away mn gd mi a2 na time almost taga gabii sa fone.. ok man mi pagmgkta ok kaayo sobra dyd.. we've been n r relationship for 3 years 6 months na pero mga 1 year mi kapin ga kuyog permi everyday 2 sum up kng ika pla ga kta.. ani mn gd ni long distance relationship mn gd mi..Â* 3 yrs ago pag graduate nya college did2 ngsogod og long distance ... pero libog ko why inana tongod pd tingali ni sa akoa cge pangotana kanang kulit sd ko usahay.. dats y i decided mo balhin nlng ko skol balik sa amoa para ma dool dool nami mga 3 hours ang byahe... ako sd nakatok sd ko dli pd seryoso skwela nanigowang nko ani hehehe!!.. i really love her so much & i know love dyd ko nya.. pero tongod sa imo ka mingaw sa iya na mgkta napod mo kay vacation na matig time out pa dyd og 1 moth.. kanang dli mo txt or col daw.. hhaaayyy!! pa gawas lng ko sa ako g bati.. unsay pasabot ana mga pipol??

Time-Out is similar to Cool-Off..i think, it's the time wherein you both give your relationship some deep thought..hmm..it can either lead to break-up (ayaw pud!) or back in each others' arms..

i think you just have to respect her decision..we never know, it might turn out better for the both of you..

Or probably, she wants to break up with you in a slower manner aka killing me softly (sorry for my rudeness), it might be her tactic of getting rid of you..well, if it does exceed as agreed (the 1 month time-out period)..i think you should talk to her and clear things up by what she really wants to do..

[baboy]

kamo guys if u r n my shoes unsa may inyo buhaton?? dugay nasad mi ba mga 3 yrs 6 months... dli pd bya na lalim sa kadugay nnyo dghn na nahitabo nnyo good tomes & bad times.. sa mga ladies dri unsa pd nyo ma sulti bout ani??