The Past VS The Present: The New and the Ex-

[M@rv|n]

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face the future and learn from the pass

[cabluey]

mas sakit cguro kng new. at least, kung ex kabalo na gyud ka unsai storya coz na tackle na gyud na ninyu b4. kaysa new girl, mabaw pag research kung unsa gyuy nkalabaw niya nimo.

[all_a_non]

mas sakit kong mabuwagan ka tungod sa imo ex oi, kai wala gyud hinongdan, kaysa kong mabuwagan ka tungog kai naa ka bag-o then sakto sad gyud na nga rason nga buwagan ka!

[jjjoelll]

i think both

[pnk_shadows]

it's more painful if he'll dump me for a new girl.makes me feel i'm useless as a gf that he had to find another one to make him happy. if he'll dump me for an ex, i'll just feel they had better times and iyaha man sad siya before, mura lang nako siya gi-uli sa ex niya..

[**julliene**]

sakit ang ex oi...mura langka anang panakip butas...para dili sya ma zerohan....faet!

[crinkle]

it'll hurt more if one goes back to an ex... that means their issues were never finished and all you two ever had were all lies...

sakto pod... basin as rebound ra ka, noh...
pero i think mas sakit gihapon kung bag-o iya gusto... mas feel nako na di jud ko enough. you may see it as "lies" but it may also be a time when you had the title "girlfriend" but you were acting as a true friend who helped him through settling his emotions... mura bestfriend, ba...

[CrasHBURN]

Hmm... Maka relate gyud ko ani...

I think both of the choices are the same. Ex or New girl/guy are considered new, after you. But the ex is mostly considered "mas sakit", which, reasons are posted above... But it would be a little better unta IF SULTIHAN GYUD ka nga mo kuyog siya ug new guy/gurl or sa iya ex. Pinaka pait kung blinded ka sa tanan nila kuyog2x. It does hurt... super duper...

Even if he/she has some reasons mao nag secret2x ug kuyog2x lain, ILLEGAL things shoudn't be done gyud in any way as possible.

Sa 3rd party pud, he/she (3rd party) has a right to ask or talk to the girl/guy, but with big limitations. He/she knows that this girl/guy has a BF/GF na, and wala siya'y labot sa relationship. He/She should think first about the future other than his/her self. Kinsa'y masakitan ? what would happen? gubot? wala ta kahibaw. Swerte lang siya kung tarong ang BF/GF sa iya gi kuyog2x. Kay dili siya hilabtan or unsa... *sigh*

libog? You want me to put some names there para dili libog sabton?

[crinkle]

^^cool lang, i would really discourage the inclusion of any name kay lainon nya pag sabot ni na topic... this is an honest question baya...

bitaw pod baya... i'm starting to realize pod na medyo mas sakit para sa uban ang pulihan ug exgurl or boy...

[ichigo]

for a new girl...