HELP My Husband is a good man but I'm in love with someone else

[ranmauelle]

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di lagi ko ganahan makigbuwag usa sa ako hubby.im trying to save our marriage.guilty jud ko karon.tapos na moody ko samot sa ako kalibog na unsay buhaton.di ko gusto makasakit sa ako bana.one time ga away me,ako siya gilayasan.adto ko mi stay sa guy.wa man ko lain ka stayhan.layas ako in the middle of the night.i think gaduda na ako husband..gusto ko mo open up niya before mag hire pa siya ug private investigator kay ka uwaw baya woi.believe me guys,im trying my best to save our marriage,im trying to bring back the lost feelings.but its never that easy.

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Originally Posted by rickflag View Post
it seems to me that you've made your decision. well, if that's what you want go for it. perhaps for now you have an idea of the hassle of getting a divorce in this country or you could be sued for adultery by your husband but if you feel that you're up to it and it's really love that you felt for this guy then it's your life girl.




how can i be sued if i havent slept with any guy?

lisod ikaso if ala proof jud.

basing sa imo mga messages din, it seems like naa naka ganahan buhaton or naa naka desisyon na fix... pero you're waiting for someone or somebody na mo-agree nimo aron moingon nimo na tama imo desisyon. it seems like you want to divorce with your hubby and be with the 2nd guy kasi all you know and feel is the 2nd guy will make you happy and compatible mo.

mao ra ni ako tan-aw sa imo mga messages ha... sensya na if di mao...
anyway, you know yourself and what you really like...

ako masulti lng maam ay, mahibaw-an nimo na tama imo desisyon if kana nga desisyon will give you peace in mind, heart and soul.... if yes imo tubag, im sure you will be happy and your loved ones as well...

then go ahead!

[angelfyre]

talk to him. he has to make things work too, dili lang kay ikaw ray mo effort. maningkamot ka na ma save imong marriage, nya imong bana? is he doing his part? dili enough na good provider lang oi. if dli jud matabang, get a divorce. life is too short to spend being miserable.

dont mind the other comments here na judgemental kaau. dont be confused. u can weigh things man. think wid a clear head. good luck!

[monmon]

mao na dha.. patuga2x sulod ug kaminyoon pero wla diay sure sa iyang gka. "i do"... timbang.timbanga lang jd ug maau imong situasyon karon.. bacn lust rana felings nmo anang laing guy... naa raba tawo nga mobati ug gugma just bec. of lust.. and for the sake nga married ka y wont u make ur marriage work and make it colorful.. bacn ikaw ang boring sa inyong marriage ug maoy wla mo participate or gaagad lang ka pirme sa imong bana.. basta always remember nga wlay pagmahay nga mag.una...

[monmon]

i want my marriage to work out bro but how?if my husband doesnt have time?i tried to approach him but he always say,later.

kong moingon imong husband ane yaw daun kahiubos mrs.. natural rana kay imong husband bya ang nanginabuhi.. dli jd na malikayan nga magsipok ang ulo esp. kong gkan cya sa trabaho or naay tight deadlines.. ikw nga asawa understand lang jd ka.. u know wat smooth raman jd unta ang dagan sa inyong marriage kong dli lng ka magcge ug huna.huna nga busy imong bana... kay maka huna2x man gd hinuon ka ug dli maau or mo take advantage naba nuon ka just bec. kay busy pirme... tan.awa karon imo na hinuon gpulihan imong bana ug guy nga dli busy.. jhehehehehe...

[hobie]

What the H ...

[Sol_Itaire]

As what Dr. Phil would always say, you fix your marriage by going TOWARDS your spouse and not AWAY from him/her.

So TS, if you REALLY want to fix your marriage, you have to get rid of your kabit first. no ifs and buts.

[rod_x]

usa ra jud akong ma.ingon.

kung unsa man gani imong decision,
sa awahi ra jud ang pag.mahay.

[Fern]

@nitwit... pag chure diha oie.


I think youre a spoiled brat that tried to change pag marriage..... but it turns out that imung pagka spoiled ni overcome gyud


Ka defensive nimu sa "i did not slept with that guy" ..... lolz sa imu palang lifestyle and western attutude.. oh common sure diha oie.

[GOSPELofROCH]

Buwag unsay dugayan!

[Fern]

Buwag unsay dugayan!

mao gyud.....

@nitwit... if thats waht you want to hear!

you just like to hear waht you want to hear in the beggining.... so western !