daghan ako ma sulit ani..
first of all,to be fair at least honest siya...
next, if mao ra na iya basi sa "love" (being sexy) then I don't think he's a keeper for the long run..
makes me wonder... is he "sexy" pud? if not then di man na fair di buh?
another point to ponder.. usually diri sa pinas when we say "date" it's usually guy and girl hanging out together.. eating.. ka bantay mo? "last night I had a date with x at the y resto" so maybe it's partially the guy's falt...
to be honest as a guy's point of view, Healthy looking girls are always.. u know nah... hahaha.. bitaw oie.. example na pud.. let's say naa mo sa coffee shop nag "date" then naai mo agi by the window na sexy but dako gud ang chance na mo lingi gud ang guys even when ur date's in front of you... of course it does not usually mean pretty.. pero none the less a moment ni sway gud iya mata..
If that me in your situation buwagan nalng nako oie.. then get fit.. sexy fit.. then make him regret..
good luck
this is very common scene and i hate it when men act like jerks. I know someone who married my friend and bisan karon nga naa na siya anak 2 i think very hot mama gihapon siya. pero she said one time nga na-pressure na daw siya kay iya bana sige ingon nga maayo unta na mubalik iya figure sa katu before na minyo! and iya bana tiguwang nga bati pa jud ug nawng! and ako friend kay gwapa jud and sexy sad and samot na nga mama na!
I told her nga it's dumb.. you can never go back sa imo old figure kay women go through so much stuff when they give birth. Unya that alone is not easy. I told her (which i usually tell people na ganahan pa gamay) nga if ever you want to loose weight ayaw himo-a nga reason imo husband o uyab.
For me ang ultimate reason to loose weight is to have a healthy body. Mao ra and this will eventually change your way of thinking in choosing your food. You can't eat this because it's not good for your body dili kay "ay di ko mukaon kay manambok ko!" Most of the time people who wanted to loose weight because of relationship reasons end up having so much pressure and having depression. Loosing weight the unhealthy way is not good. In the long run mao ra gihapon mahitabo.
I have another friend bitaw. He got dumped before because he's just so fat. He worked out like crazy. Twice a day work out and eats once a day ra. He weighed mga 400 lbs before and i think he want down to 190 lbs! He did get the body he wanted and got lots of girls later on. But then he's not happy and later on he stopped working out. Right now he gained weight again but i don't think he's 400 lbs gihapon. Basta he married a lovely and daku-on nga girl but they're both happy and contented.
So mao na. Girls don't go for guys nga you know na nga body ra gi-apas and i know it's flattering sometimes but if you want a serious relationship ayaw nalang sugdi. Unya sa mga laki nga mao rasad gi-apas palihug adto nalang sad mo sa mga girls nga wa nangita ug serious relationship kay luoy sad. hehehe. Mausab man jud ni atu mga lawas and mutiguwang sad bya ta and what matters is the COMPANIONSHIP and RESPECT kay bisan unsa pa na kadaku-a if you enjoy each others company then you'll have a fruitful and exciting relationship!
Again.. loose weight cuz you want to be healthy!!!
ka relate man sad ko ani uie..
btw ai..y are some guys (apil na akoa guy) ingon ani man?
mo matter jd sa ila ang physical features..
my guy is still with me now but he always teases me that mura daw ko balyena..
hearing this is such an insult..
i was so sexy before then bsan ako workmates said so..
but now its different na coz i gained weight jd when i got pregnant..
my body didn't return to its previous state anymore.
although my guy teases me nga nanambok ko and all, la jd ko ga-diet2, esp nga bag o pako nanganak..try ko mag 2 meals a day pwo di jd makaya, maglabad ako ulo..they say lahi na daw jd bsta naagian nka'g anak.
now, im trying my best na di kau dghan ako kan-on bhalag mag 3 meals nako in a day..
my guy is still with me..
honestly, i really wanted to be slim again coz i dnt wanna lose him or i dnt want him to be involved to another girl because of this issue..it wud only hurt so much then if maabot ani nga point.
but as for ur case, uyb paman mo, u can dump him..ingon anah mn gani sya nga uyb pamu, how much more if naa namu anak nga d usual thing dat wud happen is mausab jd ang figure..go girl!
absurd....
good thing my bf's not like this..
im fat pero wa jud ko kadungog ako bf mga isulti ni sa ako nawng
ako pa gani moana nga tambok nako, ingnon pa ko dili daw, healthy lang..bwahhah
ako gf nanambok mn pero ok rah as long faithful
that's unfair! shame on the guy kay mao ra diay iyang tuyo nga ang iyang uyab maipamhambog kay sexy... di jud ka since iyang love ana!
my bf used to say nga after manganak ko if di ko ka-get back into shape iya ko biyaan... i gained too much weight jud and haven't got back in shape but he's still with me. panghadlok ra to iya kay aron pud maningkamot ko mudaot... but doing so might mess up with my health especially with the career I have so happy na lang siya ug unsa ko now... but I'm trying my best to get back into shape not for him but for myself! I lost half of my confidence because of the shape I'm in... from 48 kls, 57kls na ko karon so need to work hard para ma-happy ko sa ako self.
Loose weight for yourself and not to please other people!
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