What I don't understand about men/women...

[jugs_06]

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@luthienne: aw sorry i misunderstood your statement.. what im trying to say with my answer is, women being fond of make-ups is comparable to men being fond of naked girls, etc..

[sheeshcute]

* OT: jugs_06 mao diay nawa ka sa shoutbox. kay naa diay ka dinhi hap. ahahaha...

[Ya_Sui]

hmm...wala na lagi ni nifollow sa rules??

guilty.. Ming follow-up lang pud ko sa ako pangutana.. and nangita pud detail coz medyo bitin man gud pagka tubag..

[hera_82]

Question open for any lady....

Q: is it ok for you to be single at 50?

[batang^yagit]

Question open for any lady....

For me ok lang. It's not like you can force yourself to be in a situation just coz time is ticking fast. Lisod pod minyo tuod ko but by the time I'm 50, I've already killed my husband because of frustration or whatnots. But ako lang siguro is this, while we're young, let's do all the crazy things imaginable like going to gay bars (alone or with friends, for curiosity sake or whatever) or dancing on ledges if the mood strikes. It's better to get over those hang-ups bound by hypocrisy now rather than letting them all take the inevitable route and rear their ugly heads when we're 50. Mas ngil-ad tan-awon ang 50 anyos nga babaye nga mag-adto-adto sa gay bar nya holding a bottle of SuperDry and trying to look sober and below 50 at the same time. Ig ka 50 nato, dapat di na ta magpabuyag coz by then naa na ta responsibility sa younger peeps, mag-mahjong na lang ta with mga amigas or magkat-on ug knitting. Being single shouldnt be synonymous with loneliness. So it shouldn't really be dreadful.

[naz]

mods, pakidelete wrong send

[hera_82]

@ batang^yagit, it's ur turn to ask na po..

[batang^yagit]

why cant men understand that we trust them but we can't trust other women?

OT: sorry hera_82, got distracted.

[diem]

why cant men understand that we trust them but we can't trust other women?

A: We just misunderstand because we think its our own masculine natures that women distrust... heck, we cannot even trust ourselves other than to be men and do things that men are known and sometimes allowed to do...

@batang^yagit, based on your question situation.. Men can't understand only as much as Woman can't understand that it is not They the men in their lives mistrust, only other men. So, patas lang tayo po.

Q: Why is it that most young ladies do not choose to accomplish their dreams, instead fall into rape and rapture of romance? I've known countless of young women who possess great promise to be worthy citizens and contributers to society fall far short of reaching their full potential because either a) they get pregnant b) they get married c) they commit suicide because they got dumped d) they go insane because they got dumped or e) lose sight of their dream or ambition because of love...

Another way of rephrasing this question is why often women base their life's true happiness of the love of a man? Why does it appear that the daughters of Eve's ambitions are set aside for a man's love?

[klavel]

Q: Another way of rephrasing this question is why often women base their life's true happiness of the love of a man? Why does it appear that the daughters of Eve's ambitions are set aside for a man's love? 

A: I once felt that way when I first met my true love. (current bf)..I made plans like I was willing to give up my dreams and rather be with him..but last december, an oversea assignment opportunity came..it was not so much of an opportunity I have longed for...I decided to grab it for it is something good for the resume in the future, hehe...I left phils. last jan. 2006 not necessarily to follow a dream..but to save for my future and for additional exposure to work. My bf and I have been into this long distance relationship for almost 8 mos...but every now and then I felt guilty for leaving (literally) but the mere thought of him waiting and still loving me dearly kept me from counting the days 'til i go home..we love each other and I should say my life's true happiness is loving him...I was not setting aside my career..but what good my career bring me if I am traveling alone in life eventually, I'll get tired of this career crap...I'd like to settle down and stand by my man..

Q: Why most men refuse to talk about the future? Do they feel pressured?