The Past VS The Present: The New and the Ex-

[rdyteves]

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[color=navy]Read "Love In The Time Of Cholera" by Gabriel Garcia Marquez, where past and present loves define a person's life and future.

[color=red] yup nice ni na book... mao sad ni ang writer sa "100 years of solitude"... poems of pablo neruda sad kay nice bro... basa ka ana niya?

[frenchfries]

naa mn jud mga tawo na preha namo uy

unsay pareha namo?
unsa diay mo?

[sexyjelly]

dats it? its okay... i'll find someone new... no more martyrdom... bye...

[bemS]

mas sakit if mubalik ra diay cya sa iya ex.. it'll make me doubt our relationship

[layco]

Dont waste energy trying to cover up failure. Learn from your failures & go on to the next challenge. It's ok to fail. If you're not failing,you're not growing.

[d_boss]

what will you do if ur happy with your present lovelife but ur still thinking of the past? like ma selos paka if kita ka lain pic sa guy sa iya friendster, ma kilig og mo humok pa imong kasingkasing if maka kita ka niya bisan sa pic lang...

[thisbe.ara]

there is a BIG difference with reminiscing good times with the past while being happy with the present and feeling jealous with the happy present of your past. there are valid reasons for such, which might be applicable to you.

1.) you might be feeling a little selfish because you want to be happy for yourself yet you don't want your past to move on (thus the jealousy)
2.) you don't have the closure that you need with your past
3.) you are just pretending to be happy with your present because he happens to be nice and ideal (someone you would have wanted your past to be)
4.) you are NOT OVER your past.

i've made a lot of friends here in istorya and though i may be a bit harsh, i would always like to see the 3rd person point of view and be truthful. in the objective of speaking my mind out, i would suggest you think things over, ask your present if you could have one last talk with your ex so that there may be no hang-ups--- be open to what you feel, do not drown it just because you are happy with your present or the fear that you might lose the person who gives you what you want.

[cebu1029]

my past... is past! Why waster brain cells thinking about something that you cant change anymore?

[shaxyra]

wa pana ka move on... hahaha

[jaide]

Present perfect