MERGED : All about "cool off"

[lhykah]

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cool off is the remedy
for an unstable relationship

[JawBreaker]

cool off?

this is a very lame excuse.
only the weak/*****ic/idiotic accept this kind of deal... "cool off sa ta"

heleeerrrrrrrrr? wa ko mabuang?

[nolex]

^^^^ cool off sa ta titah!!..


bitaw cool off is good...

[wicked_b]

cool off = break up...i do like cool offs kai alibis
pro, taking it seriously na rin, to give space
hinuktukan jud if lab pa ba nimo ang tao..
kaya tanks god naay cool off thing...

[syrenn]

cool off tabla na og bowag nmo' easy way sa pag ingon nga dli nko nmo'

[chick]

no use if u decide to have this" cool off thing" better break nalang..its d same...sort of alibi para di halata dat u dont like each other...i

[retgel]

di ko mo too anang cool off e solve di ay namong duha unsay kulang namo.

[kiwiboy]

Relationships aren't perfect all the time, especially on it's early stages. Situations may threaten the bond between two people and how one reacts, fairly gives a lot of weight too. Sometimes hurting the one you love.

I was in a relationship once, with all it's ups and downs. But during those downs, we both gave each other the chance to change. It took almost 4 years before we could say we were giving out the best in each other. Just too bad we weren't meant. It took a while before i had the chance to love again, sadly, all those maturity has been forgotten. Practically i was back to zero and had to stay out and watch the rain outside before i could get to realize this.

There's no such thing as "I love you forever"... But yes, there is such a thing as "falling out of love". And there are reasons why. But i think the best way to guard this is to be honest about it and not be afraid of telling, especially when you're almost there. You need to hurt people you love sometimes to keep on.

If you're honest enough to tell there's something wrong, or I don't like you doing this, or acting like this... is simply giving the relationship a room to grow. Because, if the other truly treasures your bond, most likely would consider and reassess oneself and ask "where had i done wrong?" .... "can i do something about it, before we lose each other?" And if indeed the other gives the chance, and the other reassessess and consider change as well... the relationship starts anew and much better.

"He brings out the best in me, and me in him." guess that's true love. Quite easy to say, but hard to do. Because we're not perfect. It needs time.. a lot of it.. You can't expect someone to be best right away. You both help each other through honest communication and well cared decisions.

Thus, I don't believe in cool-offs. It's still a break-up. But instead, just ask yourself if you're giving the relationship a chance.. and you hold on.. and help each other in rebuilding your relationship or you're ready to let it go and suffer the consequences.

I strongly agree with these......

[JawBreaker]

cool off

why prolong the pain
give it all up gurl?!

... if you can't coz you say you need to weigh things up... then i will do the dumping.

that easy.

it will surely hurt us but ... what the heck... it always will anyway.

[elpe]

mag cool-off... ma anad... dili na makig balik
reason: "I think its better this way"

mag cool-off... mingawon... magbalik
reason: "I realized that Im lost without you"

mag cool-off... wlay klaro... ngayo extension
reason: "I still need more time to think things over"

mag cool-off... ambot ngano mag ingana pa jud, buwag nalang dritsu.
mag 2-2 paman gud ba.hehe