I am happy for those women na naa anak tapos walay bana, it's bcoz strong sila... I won't judge them coz... they're hundred times stonger than a man who left a young girl or a woman nga juntis kay nahadlok sa responsibilities and I can say na these women are much better than those ibyang or babaye na nagpa-abort coz nahadlok i-judge sa lain tawo or nahadlok unsAY ika-say sa lain
P.S.
"you don't have to be afraid or be ashamed of it kay malosyang ra mog huna-huna ana dai!... karon 21st centtury na man jud, kung uso kaayo ang cellphone sa pinas uso sab kaayo ang PMS or premarital ***... Most people don't consider the emotional effects of premarital ***. You see, *** is an emotional experience and it affects our lives in ways we don't understand. After engaging in premarital ***, many people express feelings of guilt, embarrassment, distrust, resentment, lack of respect, tension, and so much more. pero ang pinaka grabe nga effect ani is... Ma-juntis jud si Inday if di magbantay... naa pa jud ning gitawag nga unwanted pregnancies. Si dodong kay hadlok man maminyo, hadlok pod mahimong papa dagan eksena dayon, byaan c Inday nga walay alamag... tapos nanganak... kay syempre ipanganak man jud nang bata... so c Inday nahimong nanay na walay tatay... and SoOOOO what? If you happen to be this Inday, ayaw kaguol, itaas ang kamay at iwagayway, be strong, ayaw ikaulaw ang nahitabo nimo coz you need to raise that child...if uso ang cellphone karon pausuha na lang usab ug buhi ang bata na walay banahay, and you need to love that child like there's no tomorrow... there are mothers nga halos di na ilhon ang ilang anak kay quesyo lagi if wa pa cla niburot naa pa unta ila loveedoovee... that's not right! a child is a gift... pasalamat ka di ka baog! bitaw oi serious, you must love that child and provide whatever kailangan niya...
just read this note from a friend of mine who happens to be a daughter pero wala father...
I grew up without my father's love. My mother raised me, and being a single mom, she made many mistakes. I suffered much. She didn't mean to mistreat me, but she did, and I harbored all those things in my heart. I grew up without a hug, without a kiss, without telling my mother I loved her, and as a result, I felt really bad inside.