Love VS. Parents and the like

[affable_chinky]

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show ur parents how u love each other.. fight ur relationship, eventually, somehow they will accept ur relationship.. u know wat sometimes.. na accept naman na nila bah only dat they jus try to measure asa mo kutob or maulaw lng cla e show since oppose cla ninyo from the very first start...forbidden relationship is nindot baya hinoon... try to talk to them if unsa possible things mahitabo if they will keep on forbidding ur relationship... aja!

[Lord_Ac]

Sooner or later maka accept ramana cla..

[sistahmwah]

any both parties here have an agreement about their relationship?
i mean you just agree because of your parents will, or you just agree because of paselos to other people, or any agreement..
i've done about this already and i want to know how are you guys ended it well.. without any hesitation, or the agreement is only for the happiness and no love at all...

[garilaps]

cool.. .. but no.. haven't tried it yet.. but i know alot of people who got married because of their parents.. but they ended up well.. and is still together until now..

[roselyn]

hmmm.. love agreement? i dont think so..so far, s** agreement.lol..
=))

[Pixie77]

yeps i had this kind of relationship w/ my 2nd boyfriend... murag "wa kay bf, wa koy gf... kita na lng!" it was kinda fun... no hassles, no false professions of love... just companionship and friendship.... and it ended well.. pagbuwag namo sige lang gihapon mi hang-out.... berks gihapon me

pero if marriage na ang topic.. lisod ni oi don't think kaya nako....

[Akane]

Please help...

My parents is still not allowing me to have boyfriend.... My parents told me if i can finish my schooling, they'll be allowing me to do whatever i want to do in life..... I'll be graduating now and i knw somehow i disobey my parents coz before graduation, I already have boyfriend...
I love this guy, He is my first boyfriend.... He understand me and i knw and feel that he loves me... I knw i have this responsibility to tell my parents... In months now, i reserve my guts and prepared myself for the worst to happen, I'd first told my mom about my guy, she's seems not happy... She told me to tell it to my dad... When I open-up it w/my dad, He got mad. He told me that im a liar... Yah! i knw that i lied to them coz im afraid for like this to happen... I just stood infront of them defending myself and stood for what i have done.... They told me to break-up with my guy, I told them that the guy was very decent and gentleman... I told them that he is very willing to meet them.... But they're not listening... They told me to break-up with him coz I won't be happy since they disagree about the relationship.... Weeks now, i dont see my guy, they don't even allowed us to talk in the fone, they also confiscated my celfone and pc .... Im heart-broken and hopeless... To make things worst, Im grounded...

Please help me or give a piece of advice...Pleassee!!!

[Akane]

Please help...

My parents is still not allowing me to have boyfriend....Â* My parents told me if i can finish my schooling, they'll be allowing me to do whatever i want to do in life.....Â* I'll be graduating now and i knw somehow i disobey my parents coz before graduation, I already have boyfriend...
I love this guy, He is my first boyfriend.... He understand me and i knw and feel that he loves me...Â* I knw i have this responsibility to tell my parents...Â* In months now, i reserve my guts and prepared myself for the worst to happen, I'd first told my mom about my guy, she's seems not happy... She told me to tell it to my dad...Â* When I open-up it w/my dad, He got mad. He told me that im a liar... Yah! i knw that i lied to them coz im afraid for like this to happen... I just stood infront of them defending myself and stood for what i have done....Â* They told me to break-up with my guy, I told them that the guy was very decent and gentleman... I told them that he is very willing to meet them.... But they're not listening... They told me to break-up with him coz I won't be happy since they disagree about the relationship....Â* Weeks now, i dont see my guy, they don't even allowed us to talk in the fone, they also confiscated my celfone and pc ....Â* Im heart-broken and hopeless... To make things worst, Im grounded...Â*

Please help me or give a piece of advice...Pleassee!!!

[thisbe.ara]

hi akane, you know what, i feel you. i've been into that situation. and i think you should also listen to your parents as to why they are acting that way. sometimes, when we are in the midst of love, we can be blinded to other important things. if someone stops us, it causes as a barrier and somehow we prefer not to listen. ahh.. the bliss of love. sometimes it can be very frustrating to have a barrier. but do bear in mind that parents only want the best for us. i know it's cliche but it's true. you try asking them why they are doing this to you and explain to them that wala ka gapabaya sa imo school.
at first, they may seem close-minded to this, especially if they still cannot accept that you are having a relationship right now with their best interests at heart. just try to continue being the good daughter that you are. you tell them that you understand them, lambingi, thank them for their concern. always show to them that you can handle pressures like this one. continue doing good in your school. and somehow, little by little, they will realize that you are mature enough for your relationship.
as for your boyfriend, when you have the chance, explain to him your situation and your parents' ideas. be honest. tell hm that you love him and that it's affecting you right now. if he really wants the best for you, he will understand. eventually, he will wait for you. you can be friends with a touch of commitment baya.. hmmm.. (what an idea!).. wehehe..
basta gurl, relax.. pray. and be glad that you have a lot of people caring for you.

[14343]

...........kay ngano ni tug-an wa pa gani ni graduate........ni graduate unsa unta ka usa tug-an.........pagkatoy2x ug ang uban pa pasulti-un..........gi huna-huna ninyo tagu un sa imu parents pero wa ninyo huna huna-e unsa un pag sulti!.........pagka lang dyud!.........-1/10.......swela balik