Same-s*x relationships

[yam123]

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biga2x rana

[Sandy_js]

watever your heart desires! go for it!

i have nothing against same s3X relationship though... it's just i'm not into it... :P

[Sandy_js]

Same *** is disgusting relationship youll ever have "Mas mabuti pa ang magnakaw kay sa Mamakla" pero depende raman sa naka angkon sa ingon ani nga relationship... depends upon da pendot.

lols! if this is the case, daghana na cguro kawatan sa pilipinas noh? dont you think?

[abeboy]

lisod ni ung ani nga relationship some are just taking advantage and it wont last long....

[abeboy]

lols! if this is the case, daghana na cguro kawatan sa pilipinas noh? dont you think?

hahaha...mao jud...

[sasunaru]

Nice, ana gyud. My take on this is that ang huna2x sa mga taw (reading technomarine's post) pirme kana man gud pangwarta2x nga style, common mindset sa mga taw diri sa atong nasod if makakita'g third-***.

I know someone, kauban nako sa business online, taga gawas siya. He's gay and naa siya boyfriend for 25 years. Take that! Longer than some of the marriages in Philippines gani.

I'm not into SSR, pero I totally respect them guys gyud.

And I know dili lang 'lust' ang nagpadagan ani nga relationship..

that's great. 25 years.. that just proves it! it's love... i don't call it a relationship if there are no feelings involved.

thank your for understanding^^

lisod ni ung ani nga relationship some are just taking advantage and it wont last long....

how about if u say, "...and some won't last long..." 'coz, it's just like that in every relationship. some last. some don't. it depends.

watever your heart desires! go for it!

i have nothing against same s3X relationship though... it's just i'm not into it... :P

yeah.. you're just not into it ^^, this is the most valid reason for not engaging into same s3x relationship. thank you

[carbrill]

as long as di lang sobra ang ilang PDA ok ra ko ana...

G2G ok ra kay daghan ko amiga nga ing ani... but B2B wa pa ko kita ani basn makiwawan ko... hehehehe...

[mandark7891]

Hmm taasa gd ani nga thread.

Regarding the issue of parenting for same-*** couples, I think it's a non-issue. Someone pointed out that a father and a mother does not necessarily equate to good parenting, which I totally agree (for reasons so obvious I don't even need to elaborate).

There's actually been a lot of studies done on this topic. Here's one I found off of google published in 2006 entitled "The Effects of Marriage, Civil Union, and Domestic Partnership Laws on the Health and Well-being of Children". It's quite lengthy but the gist can be summarized in the last paragraph under commentary, in which I quote:

"There is ample evidence to show that children raised by same-gender parents fare as well as those raised by heterosexual parents. More than 25 years of research have documented that there is no relationship between parents' sexual orientation and any measure of a child's emotional, psychosocial, and behavioral adjustment. These data have demonstrated no risk to children as a result of growing up in a family with 1 or more gay parents. Conscientious and nurturing adults, whether they are men or women, heterosexual or homosexual, can be excellent parents. The rights, benefits, and protections of civil marriage can further strengthen these families".

Link: The Effects of Marriage, Civil Union, and Domestic Partnership Laws on the Health and Well-being of Children -- Pawelski et al. 118 (1): 349 -- Pediatrics


So there. Naysayers can go ahead and suck it up. Lol!

To add, in the Philippine context I admit this would be more challenging, what with all the uptight Catholic schools and what-have-you. I'd bet my ass on the line they wouldn't even give it a thought once they know this particular kid was raised by a same-*** couple! Ha! Then again, there's homeschooling and there's also UP.

And also, as someone pointed out, there's the HUGE chance of the kid being bullied, living a hard life and called every-despicable-name-there-is-in-existence. If this deters you, then ask yourself, who hasn't been through bullying? Even as adults, gay people are in fact still being subjected to it. Ingon pa sa mga langyaw, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.

[Godfall]

this is one thing na nauso na karun... im not saying its not good, but for me i think i cant take having a relationship with the same s3x.. luoran ra kay ko. wala na ba maibog nako na bayi nga ad2 nalang ko sa laki...cguro ang uban na msugot ani ky ok ra nila ky naa may involved na feelings daw... i want to ask kato mga nakasuway kung ana ba jud kadeep inyo feelings sa inyo partner na same s3x esp B2B? ug straight ba jud mo na guy if dili ikaw ang jutskie? just a curiosity question lang.

[iMAX]

don't hav any probs with it but if ako huna2x ako self nga nay uyab kiwawan ko kung naa sa public, but i'm curious kung unsa feeling ani nga nay karelationship nga same s**...