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[color=navy]^^It doesn't necessarily have to be samantha's fault right? Maybe the guy has some unresolved issues, people are known to carry baggage from their previous relationships into their present relationship. Then again, maybe samantha's got some explaining to do, perhaps her behavior did lead to her ex-boyfriend's constant distrust of her...

But is it important now? I wonder since samantha's just told us the news that she was dumped by the guy. She and him have broken up. So the problem has resolved itself. I think samantha should move on and learn from the experience to live and love better and so I think we should too.

Next problem please.

[samantha]

sam I am:

your story just doesn't make sense. something's missing, something's just ain't right... at least to me...

there's a possibility that your BF (now ex) is all of the above -all the nasty adjectives thrown at him by posters here- OR MAYBE -you're withholding vital info from us- info that would solve the puzzle that is samantha. info that would turn the tide against you. info that would complete your sob story. and last but not least, info that would give us an idea that maybe you've done this "two-timing" thingy before.

guys don't usually question someone's sincerity and honesty if that person hasn't done any "bad stuff" before don't they?

tell us the truth: have you done things that would make your bf overly sensitive down to being paranoid? like cheating on him. like constantly telling him lies. like getting busted when you secretly go out on dates. like flirting with the opposite *** constantly... etc etc..

you know the drill.. so what is it?

iv done some faults as well..but not to the extent of flirting with other guys nor cheating on him..yah,i did tell him lies,but white lies..ts jst dt every action i made he always have an interpretation which will lead him to think that i was like what he thinks with other girls..

[omad]

^^ thanks for the honesty.

one more thing, I can't help but notice that there's still a lot of questions in the air by the way you talk about your ex bf.. I have a hunch that you still want to start another relationship with him.. am I right? but before you give it another thought..

QUIT IT!!!

[samantha]

^^ thanks for the honesty.

one more thing, I can't help but notice that there's still a lot of questions in the air by the way you talk about your ex bf.. I have a hunch that you still want to start another relationship with him.. am I right? but before you give it another thought..

QUIT IT!!!

yah..m thinkng of that untl nw..bt m nt pushing it..i knw i'll be the one who'll gonna be hurt in the end..

[black_vixen]

^samantha, that's the spirit girl !!! be strong, dn ayaw padala sa memories nga imong kawilhan.
if u meet/ know better guy, why not start new memories as well.

[caspey]

^samantha, that's the spirit girl !!! be strong, dn ayaw padala sa memories nga imong kawilhan.
if u meet/ know better guy, why not start new memories as well.

btaw2x. meet ta samantha na?

[monrose29]

ngano kaha noh,

na-a kay ma gustohan nga babaye, nya deli sila mosogot namo, unya adto siya sa other guy, after pila ka months magka storya mo sa girl nya inlove pa ka niya..

boy: kumusta naman ka?

girl: ok lang broken hearted,

boy: ngano man nag buwag mo sa imong bf?

ang girl kay paranoid na ka ayo....

girl: kamo gyud mga lalaki prehas lang mo wala nay pa pili ninyo cge lang mo pangilad human ninyo makuha inyong
gusto mangita napod mo og lain

tagbaw tawn tambag ang boy kay ma-o lagi kay love man niya ang girl... unya ang girl kay di man gyud ma inlove niya... bisan unsa pa ka nice ni boy....

unsa man jud girls? pag sure kono mo beh mo tambling ko ron bah

[duchess]

@monrose

anah jud na ang life.... dili jud nimo mapugos ang tawo nga ma-inlove sa imo. dili man lang nah mahitabo sa side sa mga lalaki ba. kami pud mga babae kay naa pud baya mi maganahan but bisag unsaon namo kay dili pud baya namo mapugos ang lalaki nga maganahan pud namo in return. ato nalang jud dawaton ang kamatuoran nga dili ihatag ni Lord sa ato ang tana naa pa sya lain plans fpr us. what ever it is... we just have to be sensitive to His will

ok ra ng mo-tumbling.... kaysa magdrugs :mrgreen:

[monrose29]

m thinking man gud ate..

why we dont give a chance or a try to have a relationship with that person, we always have a choice di bah? but ma o lagi nah we dont know what is life ahead....

ka labad bahh...


mo split ko ate.. ok ra?

[duchess]

why we dont give a chance or a try to have a relationship with that person?

kung ako lang ang imo pangutan-on....naa koy ubay2x nga matubag anah nga question kay been there done that na...

i don't give the guy a chance or try to have a relationship with that guy because:

1. i want to have a relationship out of love...not out of pity. ikaw beh, ganahan ka nga gikaluy-an ra diay ka sa babae mao gisugot ka niya. lain kaayo na...sakit!

2. what if another guy comes along then love to nako ang other guy... ako lang dayon dayon buwagan ang guy para sa other guy? unfair kaayo nah para sa first guy then ako dungog anah kay maguba kay abi palang play girl ko.. if mo stay ko sa relationship nga dili ko happy..unfair pud na sa ako nga side kay I am depriving myself of the happiness that I deserve.

3. dili ko ganahan mangilad ug tawo ug samot nga dili ko ganahan ilaron ako self... motuo man gud ko ug karma hehe

Yes, i agree nga we have a choice... and i always choose the path nga dili ko makasakit ug tawo.... may it be now or later...

so gi-unsa man to nako ug treat ang mga ani nga lalaki nga hin-agi sa ako kinabuhi.... ako sila gipasalamatan sa ila love for me and ako sila gi-friends..... hangtud nakakita sila ug lain nga babae who are worthy of the love they can give. and now we can openly talk about the past without regret..we are thankful nga it happened because we are happy where we are now and who we are with....

so unsa man mo split jud ka? mas lingaw man cguro kung molatay ka sa alambre or mo bugwak ka ug kaayo hehehe