I Want Happiness

[necrotic freak]

when you say no ego and no desire bro, you have no physical attachment. but it doesn't mean nga you will not be happy with your physical/earthly life, enjoy gihapon ka, actually, mas enjoy pa ka ug kinabuhi ky sa enjoyment sa mga physically attached nga mga tao, lahi ang imong enjoyment, dili siya affected and wai tao nga maka apekto ana.

Sa imong example, if you did not desire for sakyanan, kung wa ka gi tagaan, di ka magool. ky tigaan man ka happy kaayo ka. it is like a gift. now kung gikawat siya dili ka magool, gift ra man to para nimo, you did not desire for it although sayangan ka pero di ka magool ky you did not desire for it in the first place. simple lng, imong i report, you will do your best nga ma recover. but you don't get emotional which either maka apekto nimo sa imong trabaho ug sa imong health.

kung imo to gi desire, nya nahatagan ka, lipay kaayo ka, but since gikawat man, pwerte nimo goola di ba? di pa ka kahunahuna ug tarong, di na ka katrabaho ug tarong, di na ka mukaon ug tarong. daghan ang bad effect nimo aside nga gool kaayo ka.

investment to nimo nga sakyanan pila ka years nimo gatigom aron ka makapalit nya ok ra nimo kung kawaton? wa ka kyape?

bitaw, one way or the other i agree with you being humble, no ego will make us happy.. but for Christ sake, there's no such thing as happy 24/7 oi..

[Breakeven]

we cannot escape the reality of evil @jovs but rather face and deal with it rationally.

[jovipeorliohacokijo]

investment to nimo nga sakyanan pila ka years nimo gatigom aron ka makapalit nya ok ra nimo kung kawaton? wa ka kyape?

bitaw, one way or the other i agree with you being humble, no ego will make us happy.. but for Christ sake, there's no such thing as happy 24/7 oi..

aw, investment diay to, sorry. ingon man gud ka "gihatagan siya ug sakyanan", kaingon nako ang tag-iya sa sakyanan ang gitagaan. di man pud na matawag ug hatag sa kawatan, ky di na na kawat

of course, ma gool gyud ka kung gi desire nimo. what's next, di naka matulog ug tarong, di na ka mokaon ug tarong, apektado imong trabaho ug imong health. grabe ang imong kagool. di ka maghunahuna unsay angay buhaton basta attached kaayo ka sa imong money ug imong physical wealth.

but if wa nimo gi desire, meaning, save lng ka money ky mo buy ka sakyanan ky para gamit nimo, sa imong work, ug sa imong family. you can do unsa angay nimo buhaton para makuha nimo ug balik ug madakpan ang nag carnap. padayon lng gihapon ang imong life, as if normal lng, wai nahitabo. i have a friend, nakawatan ug motor, wa lng, happy man gihapon siya karon, maski mag commute lng siya.

i know unsa imo pasabot sa 24/7 ky matulog baya ta. hehehe

when you have no ego and no desire, lahi ang imong happiness, you have passed the balance nga sad-happy life, no room for sadness na, pirmi na lng ka happy, that even in your dream, you feel happiness, that even nag tinga na happy lng gihapon until mamatay na ang physical body, the soul is always happy.

[jovipeorliohacokijo]

we cannot escape the reality of life @jovs but rather face and deal with it rationally.

yes, we cannot escape reality. the question is what is the reality? asa man para nimo ang reality, ang temporary or ang permanent?

[Breakeven]

Jesus dealt with the problem of evil bro very precisely! mao gani ang cause nganong iyang gipakamatyan ang kita nga creation sa ginoo. To redeem us from sin which causes spritual death coz we are valuable to Him.

Sa kana nga concept @jovs you cannot justify the heinousness of sin and the problem of evil. The belief itself is flawed na when we say that good and evil co-exists from the beginning. Dili sya madawat sa normal nga pagbati.

ex:
imong anak gi-rape or gipatay imong loved ones, you cannot say that imo lang gihapon i-extinguish imong self/ego for the sake of being happy lang gihapon.

Tabla ra ug atong giilad atong kaugalingon.

[Breakeven]

yes, we cannot escape reality. the question is what is the reality? asa man para nimo ang reality, ang temporary or ang permanent?

of course the permanent. In Christianity it is to be with the creator, a personal being. It takes only one lifetime, the present life. All we have to do is believe on someone who perfected it all and have the power to raise us from the dead!

Sa Buddhism man gud you have to undergo infinite number of reincarnations una ka ma purify until you reached the status of Buddhahood. What if it isn't true?

[necrotic freak]

aw, investment diay to, sorry. ingon man gud ka "gihatagan siya ug sakyanan", kaingon nako ang tag-iya sa sakyanan ang gitagaan. di man pud na matawag ug hatag sa kawatan, ky di na na kawat

of course, ma gool gyud ka kung gi desire nimo. what's next, di naka matulog ug tarong, di na ka mokaon ug tarong, apektado imong trabaho ug imong health. grabe ang imong kagool. di ka maghunahuna unsay angay buhaton basta attached kaayo ka sa imong money ug imong physical wealth.

but if wa nimo gi desire, meaning, save lng ka money ky mo buy ka sakyanan ky para gamit nimo, sa imong work, ug sa imong family. you can do unsa angay nimo buhaton para makuha nimo ug balik ug madakpan ang nag carnap. padayon lng gihapon ang imong life, as if normal lng, wai nahitabo. i have a friend, nakawatan ug motor, wa lng, happy man gihapon siya karon, maski mag commute lng siya.

i know unsa imo pasabot sa 24/7 ky matulog baya ta. hehehe

when you have no ego and no desire, lahi ang imong happiness, you have passed the balance nga sad-happy life, no room for sadness na, pirmi na lng ka happy, that even in your dream, you feel happiness, that even nag tinga na happy lng gihapon until mamatay na ang physical body, the soul is always happy.

imo man sad gi assume nga tanan sakyanan sa taw kay hinatag. pagka nindot jud unta ug mao na. ok ra jud kaayo nako kung kawaton.

ako lang gisunod imong pattern ani nga post bro.

think that you are less, or nothing. try to avoid using yourself when you speak or think like:
- not "ako ang nitabang niya", instead "natabangan siya"
- not "ako ang nihatag niya ug kwarta", instead "natagaan siya ug kwarta"

mao ni example pod ko ug

- not "gikawat niya akong sakyanan", instead "gihatagan siya ug sakyanan" aw unsa ba.

[jovipeorliohacokijo]

Jesus dealt with the problem of evil bro very precisely! mao gani ang cause nganong iyang gipakamatyan ang kita nga creation sa ginoo. To redeem us from sin which causes spritual death coz we are valuable to Him.

Sa kana nga concept @jovs you cannot justify the heinousness of sin and the problem of evil. The belief itself is flawed na when we say that good and evil co-exists. Dili sya madawat sa normal nga pagbati.

ex:
imong anak gi-rape or gipatay imong loved ones, you cannot say that imo lang gihapon i-extinguish imong self/ego for the sake of being happy lang gihapon.

Tabla ra ug imong giilad imong kaugalingon.

bro, you are not attached physically, you don't have any desire. you don't have ego, you don't exist, which means anyone or anything around you also don't exist. if something bad happens, you will not be sad, ky you are not attached physically. if naa something good, it is a gift, you did not desire for it. you will be happy.

i will give you an example, sauna, my father-in-law was dying. of course my wife, my mother-in-law and her children were very sad. and di gyud ka accept nga kamatayonon ilang papa is ang youngest nila. di gyud siya kadawat ky para niya nag school pa siya, unsa unya mahitabo niya, mag-unsa na lng iyang future. tambag tambagan nako sila directly, although lisod gyud sila while dying pa, ako pud gipasabot akong father-in-law which is kasabot pud siya. pagkamatay gyud, as if wala lng ang youngest, ako wife, ug iyang mga igsoon. gi haya namo, gilubong. akong mother-in-law, hilak siya pero nakasabot ra siya pagkadugayan. then mura lng ug wai nahitabo. padayon ang isig ka life nila, ang youngest padayon lng school, karon graduate ug nag work na. then mao gihapon ako balikbalik nila bec the physical body and physical wealth is nothing, they are temporary, the body can die, possessions ky mawala ra or inig kamatay, dili madala. but happiness dwells in the soul and soul don't die.

"Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared."
-Buddha

[necrotic freak]

^ordinaryo raman kaayo na imong example bro.. natural death within the family.. apil mana sa wali sa mga pari.

well, Buddha bless you jovs.

[jovipeorliohacokijo]

of course the permanent. In Christianity it is to be with the creator, a personal being. It takes only one lifetime, the present life. All we have to do is believe on someone who perfected it all and have the power to raise us from the dead!

Sa Buddhism man gud you have to undergo infinite number of reincarnations una ka ma purify until you reached the status of Buddhahood. What if it isn't true?

ask ko nimo bro, is there such thing as Christian soul, Muslim soul, Buddhist soul? Male or Female soul?

ngano man diay if Christianity, Buddhism or any religion is not true, wa kai pakialam, you are just happy all the time. no need to desire nga ma heaven. just do good all the item. and be happy all the time.

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Don't Worry Be Happy by Bobby McFerrin