Being the Nice Guy

[labyrinthbw]

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@edgeowns

we will never know the reasons how these girls chose their partners...it had been their prerogative to choose wisely...but sometimes, things just make no sense...if choosing the right partner is like choosing a brand new TV set, then everything would have been simpler...but that's not the way things are, right? we are humans.. we make mistakes... we'll just have to be responsible enough to face these challenges...

[wicked_b]

hoi wicked, fans pud diay ka ni david d?

hahahaha..yaw saba oi..ato2x ra na..hahahha

Q? are u a nice guy or a good one @Isteb

[kula]

go isteb! kaya mo yan!

[bcasabee]

Ah....karon ra ko ka notice.....about nice guys and good guys......mura diay na ug Mr. Perfect guy ug Mr. Right guy.....hehehehe?

hahahaha..yaw saba oi..ato2x ra na..hahahha

Q? are u a nice guy or a good one @Isteb

[Ms.Beau]

well, for me, attraction can be explained. experts have been analyzing the nature of attraction and there are several theories already. some say it's the "going home" thing--you tend to get attracted to the person having similar traits as the parent you've had issues with. some say it's getting attracted to the traits your earliest caregiver possessed. others naman espouse the biological theory--the subconscious need for that person you'd be most compatible with for survival. and of course there's that social recognition thing--what you lack you want to have, so you choose someone that would complement or even "complete" you--all for social competence.

[ayveeh]

..............mas ganhan kg bad boy...

[kyuusai]

^bitaw serious jud kay ka ms.beau and i assumed that you are a psychology graduate? hehehe..

[Ms.Beau]

^bitaw serious jud kay ka ms.beau and i assumed that you are a psychology graduate? hehehe..

OT: well, i'd take that as a compliment kyuusai...seriousness is another facet of mine nga pirmi makit-an pero nakabantay naman sad kaha ka sa akong pagka way bu-ot? ahehe...i'll catch you in the shout box or ym one of these days ha..

no, im not a pysch major but has a background in Occupational Therapy. lots of psychology units in the course. and i also read pop psychology and relationship books. books namay nahimong "parent" nako.

[edgeowns]

Problem is, most people know its a mistake yet they do it. They can always use the excuse "oh Im just human"... "charge it to experience"... Well its ok if youre clueless about it at first. Sad thing is, most know the path they are heading to yet continue towards it, and worse - they whine about it later. Just cuz were prone to mistakes doesnt mean we should abuse it.

I agree with Ms. Beau attraction can be understood. Its either you follow your heart(love/infatuation), your mind(using a person/stupidity), or your body(sexual attraction).

[Ms.Beau]

@edgeowns

...you'd be long dead before you even got close to the answer.

sus dude, ni ingon diay ka ani? long dead before ka ron...buhi pa man lagi ko. i believe im close to the answer. read my post above.