During a fight with your spouse, what's the right way to deal with it?

[al1974]

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also remember:
1. No name calling
2. Never bring up the past
these two things worsen the issues at hand if included in the fight

[emjay23]

ask him/her to sit down and talk about it(in a nicer way) and say sorry to cool him/her down and then you can start discussing whatever the problem is. and then look for a solution. and its better off, if possible nga dili jud ninyo paugmaan. coz its just one way of showing him/her that you are sincere and willing to reconcile

[medjz]

wen we fight, my hubby wont talk... silent war amu style.. hehe i will be the one talking and demand for his answers. but most of the time he's just quiet, until we sob.. hehe i cant cry quietly just like him, so he will wrap me with his arms and let our hearts out.. then we wil fix things calmy. and the best thing, it ends with a war in bed.. hehehe

[SkipLost]

unta pareha ko ninyu oie ma-init man gyud akong ulo basta mag away me mo dako dayun ang tingog mao ng mo dako dayun ang away imbis gamay lang mga highblood man cguro me ahah..

[marshie]

i agree to let it cool down frst.. kaysa mag try mo ug end up the topic but still init pa angmga ulo.. lain raba ning sd.an kay kusog kaayo mo putak.my partner doesnt want to argue,he's not into fights.he will just keep quiet and same way here.dli sad jud ko motingog ug akoy masuko,so wala jud foghts na super mahitabo.then,if cool down na both.u can talk about it then..pero,its not good sad na if ur both dont want to fght about what happend.u still need to have the confrontation kay lisud ug makimkim ang mga questions..

[ashmae_01]

ask lng ko ngano ang mga bana ma pride man kinsa jud dapat mgpa ubos sa iyang pride ang asawa o bana? unsaon man pra mgka cnabtanay jud mo

[junmagz]

korek!! its because of pride... some says that.. pride nalng naa naku imoha pajud kuhaon....

[bumble.buyog]

I'm really lucky na dili ma pride ako banana. if we fight, I say what I need to say then I shut up until calm down otherwise all hell will break loose dyud.

[^Dinna^]

as much as possible dapat dili magdungan inyo sapot duha. naa gyuy mo give in. unya iresolve ang problem kung bugnaw na inyo ulo duha asap.

[scope_hunting]

say sorrry and a good love making to wash away the stress and anger. mao na after away daghan anak