OK to be in Love With Your Friend's BF/GF/Ex?

[twalalyn]

i don't recommend it...........

[bUrbY_dUll]

for a cup of coffee?why not...if hes a good conversationalist...i did it once actually..

[cyril]

once you do that, dont forget what youre getting into.

relationships only get dormant, not extinct and it could get active when you least expect it.

[digitalsuperman]

wow..kuyawa gyud aning cyril uy...tsk.tsk..speaking out of expirience man.hehehe...
cyril IDOL!!!

[SweetCatEyes]

first I have to know if my friend has feelings for him still, if yes, forget about it, I dont wanna hurt her feelings

second, what's the cause of the break up? If its third party on the guy's part and he cheated my friend, I will never date him because he's a cheater and its probable that he will cheat on me too (later)

third, if my friends has no more feelings for him and the cause of the break up is not third party but pure incompatibility or anything negligible and if I like the guy, then I will date him.

[n0stALg|a]

i guess its all good.. juz as long as my fren that the guy used to date is so over him.. di bah?! i dont wanna hurt mah fren like that..

[callprimz]

it depends on the persons involved.. though x na ang person sa imo fren ders always a gap... pro try to let your friend understand and confront him about the situation .. aron dili madaot in u frienship nga na build and to clear things up..

[crinkle]

NO

+ gubot
+ you have pre-conceived notions about him already ( esp about the negative facts )
+ your friend might still have feelings for the guy
+ the guy must be using you so he could get back with you friend

YES

+ everything else won't matter as long as the feeling is there
+ people change
+ as long as your friend is over the guy, why worry?

~ ga libog pa ko...

[Zealot]

no.... kay sakit kaayo huna2x-on

[ground_crashed]

what would you do if you and your bestest best friend are in love with the same girl?[anyone help me, please!]