The Break-up/Buwag Discussions

[princezzz_pucca]

any ideas?

[badu7]

pangitaan ug flaw sa iyang character or attitude ...

[diem]

[color=navy]I often believe that relationships are as unique as the individuals who form them, so I guess the same could be said of break ups. Best is relative. What may work for some may not work as well as for others.

An amicable break-up is something to hope for but not something to expect. It's really dependent on how mature the other person is.

Here are some general guidelines though for an EFFECTIVE break up:

If a lady is going to initiate a break up, she should have a good, clear reason why. Most guys would not tolerate vague, lame reasons. It's best to be honest, clear and concise with your reason so that there will be no confusion.

The lady should take in consideration where to inform the guy her decision. A public place is not a cool idea for the guy may make a scene through his anger. The experts suggest a neutral place that's private yet provides safety and security for the lady and a quick exit for the guy, such as the residence of the lady's relative or a good friend.

Once the lady has her BF in the garden or den of a friend's house. She should be direct with the business at hand. A good start will be along the lines of "I am unhappy with our relationship and I cannot tolerate it anymore". If the lady can enumerate the instances or traits which lead to such unhappiness, the better.

If there is a third party, it's best to admit it but not elaborate.

A lady should be firm and strong in acting and speaking out this decision. Any sign of emotional weakness or vulnerability can only prolong the matter, making it bitter. The lady can be apologetic, show some sympathy to the guy but in moderate action.

[metallica]

tell the truth nga wla nakay gusto nya

[akosabni]

find a replacement

[alexaanne]

[color=navy]I often believe that relationships are as unique as the individuals who form them, so I guess the same could be said of break ups. Best is relative. What may work for some may not work as well as for others.

An amicable break-up is something to hope for but not something to expect. It's really dependent on how mature the other person is.

Here are some general guidelines though for an EFFECTIVE break up:

If a lady is going to initiate a break up, she should have a good, clear reason why. Most guys would not tolerate vague, lame reasons. It's best to be honest, clear and concise with your reason so that there will be no confusion.

The lady should take in consideration where to inform the guy her decision. A public place is not a cool idea for the guy may make a scene through his anger. The experts suggest a neutral place that's private yet provides safety and security for the lady and a quick exit for the guy, such as the residence of the lady's relative or a good friend.

Once the lady has her BF in the garden or den of a friend's house. She should be direct with the business at hand. A good start will be along the lines of "I am unhappy with our relationship and I cannot tolerate it anymore". If the lady can enumerate the instances or traits which lead to such unhappiness, the better.

If there is a third party, it's best to admit it but not elaborate.

A lady should be firm and strong in acting and speaking out this decision. Any sign of emotional weakness or vulnerability can only prolong the matter, making it bitter. The lady can be apologetic, show some sympathy to the guy but in moderate action.

saludo ko ani dah!!! :mrgreen:

[Genocide]

Proxy

[laagan_si_organizer]

Who should initiate the break up, the girl or the guy??

[Toushirou]

I think it should be the girl... Since siyay nisugot na magkauyab sila sa boy... Siya pud dapat ang mag-initiate sa break-up... hehe... Not sure... Correct me if i'm wrong...

[Baeybe_Bryce]

when you think it's not healthy anymore,it doesn't matter who take the initiative..
both have the right to do it as long as the reason is valid.