How do you turn down a persistent suitor?

[crabmet]

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Hilasa ra kaayo mo storya sa mga girls oi... naa byay guys na hinay ila apeal or d sila apealling mo atobang sa ila g panguyaban maski g buhat na ang tanan pero sencire sila ...

ang baye man god dali ra ma silaw, mangita gyod og unsa ilang g pangita mao ng naay time na ma sayop sila og pili sa ila ma partner
kay ambesyoso raman kaayo.

wht im trying to say here is dili tanang laki oi gago....


i hope sab makasabot mo kay ako usa sab ko bisan ga tarong ko bisan pag asa pa nako dad on akong pag ampo

naa rana sa swerti sa tawo coz life if so unfare

bow

[psyche_08]

oh, i have persistent suitors, one of which is also from... nah, forget it. anyway, the other (persitent suitor) has been courting me since i was 13 years old, he's 11 at that time, and whenever he sees me hangtod karun, mao lang daw ghapon iyang feelings nako no matter how many times i turned him down... persistent, isnt he? well, there were a lot of times nga sarcastic najed kau ko niya and sige lang nako awayun, para makarealized pud sya nga maldita kaau ko. ang hinampak, nigara man hinuun. well, untill karun lagi ghapon basta makakita na sya nako kusog kau magpatagad and its been 11 years na nga sige na cya in-ana bisag naa sya uyab. hahai! kafaet!

[shuen79]

if dli motuo nimu ayaw nlng tagda...

[r0mm3L]

Hilasa ra kaayo mo storya sa mga girls oi... naa byay guys na hinay ila apeal or d sila apealling mo atobang sa ila g panguyaban maski g buhat na ang tanan pero sencire sila ...

ang baye man god dali ra ma silaw, mangita gyod og unsa ilang g pangita mao ng naay time na ma sayop sila og pili sa ila ma partner
kay ambesyoso raman kaayo.

wht im trying to say here is dili tanang laki oi gago....


i hope sab makasabot mo kay ako usa sab ko bisan ga tarong ko bisan pag asa pa nako dad on akong pag ampo

naa rana sa swerti sa tawo coz life if so unfare

bow

right

[jumps_zilla]

persistently turn them down?

[thisbe.ara]

sometimes they can be persistent coz you don't tell them straight ahead and this might be mistaken as pakipot. some suitors see that as challenging thus the persistence.
my most useful hint is "i appreciate the offer/affection, but i don't think my fiancee would be happy about that.. and if he ain't happy, i am not happy".
anyway, it doesn't work most of the time so drop off the hints and bluntly say "i am not interested". ang mga bagag nawng nga di kasabot ain't worth your time.

[klavel]

tell him straight that you don't see yourself as his gf and friendship is all you can offer as of now..make sure though that you say it in a nice way so he will not be offended...if persistent ghapon gali, tell the horrible truth of your dislike sa iya and ask him at what language does he prefer it to be said para masabtan jud sa guy ug ayo..sharo!

[cruella_1025]

tell him that you're geting married soon..

[dagget]

taga-i ug lain nga panguyaban............

[jarrex]

ingna lang naa na kay uyab para dili na mo balik ug mobalik iyug an dayon sa imo parents