i have been there sis! i feel you.
pero i overcome this situation by making myself even more attractive than usual. na there will be times akong uyab kay mag sige nag tutok nako ba. and it's not the usual tutok kay basta.. ma feel ra jud nga lahi. daghan sad bitaw ang na crush aning akung uyab and naa pud ni siya'y mga crush pero kaning mga crush na crash na ron. hahaha!
just improve yourself. make your insecurities your inspiration.

tell yourself that you're waaaay better than her or them. and don't underestimate yourself. give your best and show them who's boss. show your boyfriend that he deserves you and you deserve him. and sis, also give him that hint of sweetness nga mag sige jud siya'g pangita nimo. like.. cook for him his fave dish or even ask him unsai iyang ganahan nga imung himuon or buhaton para niya pero kana sad nga things nga comfortable ka or things na not beyond your limits sa inyong relationship, just know the do's and don'ts sa inyong relationship and also things that he'd appreciate much.
