don't rush and don't pressure yourself if your gonna say yes or no to him...you should consider everything that you have right now. if you think your confuse of what to say to him..then just wait for the right time, have a clear mind.. then you decide..
the duration of courtship shouldn't matter and shouldn't give you any pressure at all.its the quality of the courtship that matters most..take your time and just have a clear mind..and your heart will follow..and that will make you come up with a just decision.
good luck...
