First Cousin Relationship

[ryoken]

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after 10 long years, nagkita na jud tawn mi last week and we're both very happy. Our plan still remains and right now, our communication keeps getting stronger. He will visit me here in Cebu next week and in the next few weeks, i'l be very busy processing my papers.. Our love becomes stronger and we're both hoping that everything will be put in place and that everything will be settled so that we'll be together.. not here but in a place where we could start all over again.. together with our children, in Time...

wow..wanna know what's your status right now blueangel_88...well..thanks for your advices and opinions but as of now we are still in a secret relationship and going strong..i still doubt if ipadayun ba jd ni nko ako relasyon nya...2 years and 2 months nami and still happy and strong eventhough we are long distance relationship..i still dont know how to decide...it's just that our love is very strong but in a wrong place where people hardly criticize us and don't accept cousin couples...i still believe the thought that "love conquers all" , we have plans that if stable na mi, we will migrate to other country na accepted ang cousin couple ug pede mgpa kasal ang cousin couples...but still i have 2nd thoughts because i also love my family..i don't know what to do.. i know forbidden ni by law and some say by the bible.. i don't know any verse from the bible na g.forbid ang cousin couple.. if anybody knows can u state it here..i wanna know what it says..tnx

[bojaxx24]

wow..wanna know what's your status right now blueangel_88...well..thanks for your advices and opinions but as of now we are still in a secret relationship and going strong..i still doubt if ipadayun ba jd ni nko ako relasyon nya...2 years and 2 months nami and still happy and strong eventhough we are long distance relationship..i still dont know how to decide...it's just that our love is very strong but in a wrong place where people hardly criticize us and don't accept cousin couples...i still believe the thought that "love conquers all" , we have plans that if stable na mi, we will migrate to other country na accepted ang cousin couple ug pede mgpa kasal ang cousin couples...but still i have 2nd thoughts because i also love my family..i don't know what to do.. i know forbidden ni by law and some say by the bible.. i don't know any verse from the bible na g.forbid ang cousin couple.. if anybody knows can u state it here..i wanna know what it says..tnx

If matagaan baka boss would it change your mind? Coz indeed it's not good jud and against sa bible..
Dili sa sin but did pud good ang result in the future..

[ryoken]

If matagaan baka boss would it change your mind? Coz indeed it's not good jud and against sa bible..
Dili sa sin but did pud good ang result in the future..

it would help me reflect...but not sure if it would change my mind..i got my strength and courage from a supporting website: Cousin Marriage Resources
please do also check that site to know also our side as cousin couples...it's been a tradition to us filipinos that it is forbidden by law and by church, and i understand that a tradition is hard to change..but nothings wrong if you know our side being cousin couple..and also would help you understand us..

[halon1301]

lisura ana inyung sitwasyon oie, unsa kaha ma sulti sa inyong mga children puhon

[ryoken]

we plan to migrate to a place where cousin couples are accepted..actually there are a lot of places that don't see cousin couples as incest or forbidden..the only problem is our family..i know the consequences..but i'm not ready yet..we just wait for the time that we can stand up on our own feet..and stable enough to fight for our love..if u can state a verse from the bible that forbids cousin couple then you have the right to disagree with our relationship based from the bible but if not then maybe GOD is with our side...love conquers all anyway..the bible says it.. no hard feelings...just defending our side..

[rics zalved]

way mokasal ninyong pari ana TS,

[cool_romar]

that love will pass t.s. later on you'll laugh when you remember you once loved a cousin...

you could fight for that love but think of what will happen to you, to him should you follow what your heart dictates now..

sometimes, there are things that needs to be sacrificed. even the desires of our hearts.. im sure you don't want to live feeling you are an outcast because of the decisions you made.

do you want put a stain on the image of your family? ruin your future? live in a society that no matter how you deny, will always put a negative image on things like this? succumb into hiding? prolly put greater risk for congenital disease on your offspring?

i guess not, so think twice..

[aldrin89]

for me TS it's wrong... naa koy nakaila nga amigo iyang nauyab kay iya ra di ay cousin, then they already had ***... pagkahibaw niya nga ig-agaw ra di ay sila... buak gyud iyang dughan grabe hilak niya... pero iyang gi let go... and now he is happily married sa babae nga dili niya kadugo...

[edoy]

sa karon nga panahon nga nisaka na ang populasyon ug sa atong namat-an nga kultura, murag gidili ang pakigrelasyon sa kadugo sama sa manag-agaw. pero kung napa ka sa karaan nga panahon nga dyutay pa ang mga tawo, hayan hatagan na ug pagtugot sa rason nga mosanay ang mga kaliwat. pero sa natad sa scientia wala man gidili ang sistema sa pagpasanay ngadto sa kaliwat sa kaliwat o kadugo sa kadugo.

[bloodfield]

fight for it