I agree with ulyssa. It's really the lesser of two evils and it's about time that we accepted the situation instead of living in denial. Most of the time prosties (real or virtual) are considered by the authorities as "victims" which is ridiculous really and an obvious attempt to shift blame away from Filipinos. It's sort of like a arresting a drug buyer and letting the pusher off the hook.
angayan maning prisuhun ang mga ginikanan aning mga bataa ue..
^^true.. the parents do take responsibility for it when they get caught. but think about it... would u rather have ur kids being touched and abused by strangers physically, or have them touch each other nalang?
i know that both concepts are BOTH WORONG.. but like reptoid said, which is the "lesser of 2 evils"?
I find it downright disgusting and horrid that parents have the nerve to result to selling their children "virtually".
but if u think of it in their shoes, they're probably thinking "ok raman, kay the kids still belong to us and not sent to the buyers directly, and di bitaw sila ma infected sa AIDS. Cam ra bitaw." At the end of the day, they have more money, the kids still live within the same house, are not hurt (physically speaking), and they get food on the table.
It's disgusting.. but it's reality.tsk tsk
hey, they can be mentally disturbed. the kids may suffer traumas.
i said not hurt (physically)... so mentally, there is a great possibility![]()
But usually, traumas come from violence. If the kids were merely told to do the activities without being beaten for it, then to them, it wouldn't be as traumatizing.
Theyd only realize that it IS traumatizing when they come of age and find out that those activities were explicit and wrong.![]()
sa mga mata ng bata, tama ang ginagawa ng mga matatanda
Exactly. if u point to the sun and say "it's the moon!" , then they will see that as correct since they are ignorant of that fact.
So if the parents told them, "strip down and touch ur sister there!", they wouldnt think "yuck! this is sexual abuse! this is incest!" .. they'd probably think "oh..okay.. mommy/daddy said so."
they would only start to realize that they did something disturbing and identify it as a "trauma" when they reach puberty and hear all the gossip about s.ex. Perhaps THEN is when theyll start getting emotionally hurt when they get confused and puzzled if what they did was wrong or right. Mommy/dadddy said so, db?
tsk tsk....
but ofcourse, we never know. there might be cases where the parents DO beat them into doing the acts, thus the trauma is in the BEATING and not the act.
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