Being the Nice Guy

[Streetcar]

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What is the first impression that you think about a guy you just met? what do people ask you first about that first date...how did it go? is he nice? so ang tubag depends, it went awful, it went great...he is reallly nice or i dunno i didn't find him nice.

For me nice means a gentleman in every sense of the word.

[Ms.Beau]

sakto si uncle barok, dude-dong isteb. the older you get, the less energy you have to expend, so kapoy na kaayu nang mga roller-coaster emotions oi.

so i guess that's one of the developmental tasks of youth--self-discovery. you don't know yourself fully yet, so it follows that you don't know what you want (in a partner, in life, etc.).

wish you all the growing pains of early adulthood aheheh


@streetcar: totally agree with you...i'd go for the nice guys still

[Streetcar]

Agree sab ko ana, the older you get the mellower you become kapoy na makipag date even. What it really boils down to, older folks just needs companionship someone there to talk to not necessarily marriage. For me i have been single for the longest time since and at this point in my life, i'm already set in everything mas lisud na mag-asawa ko it might upset my already peaceful life. Why change anything?
If i want a man, manguhit ra man ko, lol

[Isteb]

wish you all the growing pains of early adulthood aheheh

ayaw pud ana oi... kulbaan pud ta. sumbong tika sa mods ron. huhuhu i thot u were my dude?!



seriously, mag unsa na lang kaha ko sah kung mu 98 years old na ko unya ang mga babae by that time ganahan na ug nice gys? hmmm...

[Ms.Beau]

dont worry you still have your second life di ba? mo reincarnate man kaha ka lol

every stage in life has its own growing pains...skipping your share of early adulthood growing pains would just compound them on the next stages. tan-awa nang mga middle-aged nga wala ni graduate sa adolescence, di ba mas daghan ug problema kaysa mga hamtong na?

therefore,i wish you ALL THE GROWNG PAINS IN LIFE...more, Lord, more!


@streetcar: LOL...

[Streetcar]

Yeah Ms. Beau, LOL na lang ko ani....
Isteb is looking? why looking? not finding? lol bibo man ni si Isteb oi.

[bot_yok]

nope......

[Isteb]

dude ayaw sige'g pataka ug pangayo sa ginoo... di pa gyud mao ang gipangayo.


nice guys are more self centered than the jerks. kanang mga ka edad ra nako ha... ambot lang ana sa batch nilang ms.beau

that's because nice guys are usually "nice" because they want others to like them for being "nice". you can't get any more self centered than that. ambot lang kaha sa inyong batch... basta sa among henerasyon mao ni.

[r0mm3L]

nice guy? in our standards, nice guys are synonymous with wimps. begging, pleading, supplicating, whining, basically lame stuff that only drives the women away. i know. i used to be a nice guy. now, i'm a good guy. watch out.

bai isteb, isnt this is an immature guy? not a nice guy i think

[Isteb]

oh yeah. i forgot to add "immature" to the list of qualities of a nice guy. thanks for reminding me. you rawk.