Originally Posted by
blueangel_88
i soo agree with u kenro. i can very well relate to the TS situation because this is what is happening to me right now.. worst, much more complicated than the TS. 10 yrs ago, i fell in love with my 2nd cousin. He's also living in Mla and me, working here in Cebu. I did consider before as to what other's would say, our family and the society reason why i end up marrying another man. I thought that would solve the problem.. to stay away from him but it became worst. After 5 yrs of marriage, karon murag na lang mi nagkuyog sa akong husband because of our son. As to sa akoang 2nd cousin pud, I never knew what happened to him then but some of our cousins told me that mura daw ug nabuang. He's always drunk to the point nga naglayas sa ilaha. Pila na katuig nangagi but i still couldn't forget him.. i didnt know nga cya pud diay, same ra ang na-feel even after naminyo na mi pareho. Just last year, September 21 to be exact, nagka communicate mi balik through FB. My gosh, i had goosebumps.. di ko kasabot sa akong gibati ato nga time, mura jud mubuto akong dughan nga mura kog kahilakon.. and that time, he opened up everything. I dont know man pud nganong ingun ato kapaspas sa mga nahitabo but i also confessed my love for him, wa jud naku kapugngi akong self nga isulti because i've been keeping that feelings for the past 10yrs of my life.
That it all started again. Nibalik cya work sa Africa and our communication became stronger. Nagkita napud mi balik after 10 yrs thru webcame. Kahilakon ko pagkita naku niya after 10yrs and cya pud, cguro we missed each other so much jud. After 3 months of work, niuli napud cya last week sa Mla. and we're planning to see each other in 2 weeks time (Feb.). Naplano naman namo what to do and that we'll be seeing to talk kung unsay mga steps nga buhaton pa jud namu because we're both decided to have an annullment.. mas complicated pa jud gani among situation kesa TS because u c, we're both married but we're taking one step at a time to make things right. I know di tanan makasabot but we're both ready to face the consequences, right now, we don't want to loose each other again. We have tried our best to stay away from each other but it seems nga mura na nuon mi gipaduol ug maayo. Mao agree jud ko nimu Kenro because daghan kaayo "should've, would've, could've" because if only i had the courage to face everything before, cguro we're both happy na, dili pareho karon nga cge kuyog sa among mga partner bisag deep inside, it's killing you because u know that you're not with the person whom you truly love.. hayzzzzz... faet! I know its gonna be tough jud but we're both ready and decided to fight for our love.. i was also 20yrs old when i fell in love with him. TOo young to make a decision, nahadlok because dependent pa sa mga parents but now i know what i want. It is to be with him for life and that he is the one who can make me happy.
Moral of the story: being with the person you love may be difficult but it's definitely worth it! and i am really looking forward to spend a lifetime with him.
Re: First Cousin Relationship
wow..wanna know what's your status right now blueangel_88...well..thanks for your advices and opinions but as of now we are still in a secret relationship and going strong..i still doubt if ipadayun ba jd ni nko ako relasyon nya...2 years and 2 months nami and still happy and strong eventhough we are long distance relationship..i still dont know how to decide...it's just that our love is very strong but in a wrong place where people hardly criticize us and don't accept cousin couples...i still believe the thought that "love conquers all" , we have plans that if stable na mi, we will migrate to other country na accepted ang cousin couple ug pede mgpa kasal ang cousin couples...but still i have 2nd thoughts because i also love my family..i don't know what to do.. i know forbidden ni by law and some say by the bible.. i don't know any verse from the bible na g.forbid ang cousin couple.. if anybody knows can u state it here..i wanna know what it says..tnx
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