HELP: I'm slowly falling in love with a married guy

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It goes like this:
I just lost my bf kay iya ko gibaylo sa isa ka gay and it hurts a lot.

This guy however (a close friend of mine) got separated coz his wife chose her parents more than him. Bilib lang ko niya kay he never told almost anyone about it, except me and the other privileged few. Somehow, I believe if I help him fix his broken heart, mine would heal along the way.

Lisod man wui, post lang ko sa full story later in the evening.

miga...adultery na...

ako pa nimo...ikaw may gdala sa imo self...then control it...

dictate urself...not to someone attached na...civil and spiritually...

go on and enjoy with other boys....

OT: ikaw na sa imo avatar? hehehe

ila-ila ta miss...hehehe


toinkz!

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Gee, I'm so shocked Chi. You showed your feelings here in the post.

Dugay na ko nakabantay sa imong feelings Chi and I'm going to say this again (even write this down in your post) "Despite of the turbulent relationship I had, I will always be FAITHFUL with my wife." I made my oath with her and I'm going to stick it in my heart.

I know these words would be a blow but please understand pud. Reality is harsh yet if you learn from it and make it your ally, it will make you strong.

Sorry Chi, don't waste your time on me. If I'm going to die a loner in this world so be it...as long as I did not defile my oath with my wife.

I will a friend Chi but no more, no less.

VERY GOOD!!! VERY BRAVE!!!

@TS...care for a date?

toinkz!...hehehe

[monrose29]

gugmang maka buang hehehe

@TS

wait lang girl na-a pa ka chance..dont force your self to him lang kay lain sad ka ayo paminawon....if you truly love him gyud kahibaw ka sa iyang story and iya kina iya sabta lang nah sya sa pagka karon kay deli pod baya na lalim ang masakitan lang sad nya mo duha if deli mo work inyo relationship especially nga committed sya and gipakaslan gyud niya ang girl...ayaw pag dali2x kay daghan na disgrasya anang mag dali2x... bisan wala na mo work ilang relationship sa iyang wife deli man gihapon na reason nga mangita sya og lain or maybe deli pa sya andam or na-a syay lain reason nga sya ra pod ang naka hibaw...e continue lang nah inyo friendship kay sa deli ma dugay ma develop ra gyud mo sa usag usa..as of now medyo complicated pa ka ayo ang status sa imong guy..ma o nah relax ka lang..ayaw pugsa kay basin mag dugo.... swerte gali ka kay bo-otan pud lakiha..wat if gi patulan pod ka niya and at the end iyang wife gihapon iyang gipili.. malipay ka? nga matawag kang kabit? aw na-a ra na nimo.....

[kchisiru]

cant sleep well sa iyang gipanulti. I tried calling him last nite sa iyang cell but its turned off.

[kchisiru]

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as for the TS
sis if a guy really likes you then he will fight for you.. its quite obvious from his post na he is a good and responsible person.. something that i cant say for you.. i suggest na you take a graceful exit.. HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.. sis babae pud ka, and your boyfriend left you for somebody else.. how would you feel if in time nana pud ky husband and another girl would make a move on him.? what goes around comes around.

I will only make my graceful exit Sis kung nagkaheart to heart talk na mi.

[entz_fire]

murag related rani na thread! check this out.

https://www.istorya.net/forums/family...5068595related

[bbnescia]

hahahha...sis rithchiepaul ang iya na inlaban ba, ilhan kaayo.mura d man sila close,ang laki gani ang dli niya..hala ka sis kchisiru..

[nitesky]

then there's the answer to your problem... bag-o pa ka nakigbuwag sa imo bf nya na divert imo feeling to this married man which is unhealthy. Unhealthy, not only that he's married but also wala pa nmo taga-e ug time imo self para ma heal. losing a love and jumping to another in a snap is not ideal really. You must give time to yourself to evaluate everything para dili na to mausab ang imo mistakes sa una. ayaw padala daun sa imo feelings kay mao ra na mo betray nmo someday. take time to relax nya breathe and think... ^_^

[parts]

ako pa nmo sis btaw...kung dle jd ka matagbaw..well, go ahead and pursue him,.you will never know what will happen if u just keep ur feelings...this is not to encourage u, this is an advice about ur feelings..kung dle jd ka mahimotang, hala cge,patuyangi na..aron pd ma satisfy imo g.bati dha..wala ta kabalo, in d long run, maka realize rjd diay ka nga walay lami imo gibuhat...

take the risk and be prepared with its consequences..

[kabz]

sus ka gwapa ra nimo sis..... ako nalang hehehehe