TABANG Unsaon nako pag sulti sa parents sa akong uyab nga namabdos siya?

[kenneth182]

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waaaaaaaaaaahhh..nindota ah..sulbad na ang problema..ai na pangchx bro ha..heheeh..
focus nlng sa imong future wife..

wa mn ko anang pang chx bro. .hehehe..

[babypaupau]

kbaw ka, this happened to me too. i got pregnant when i was 17, maguwang ra ug 3 months akong bf then. as in i was soo scared, dili tungod kay hadlok ko sa reaction sa akong mom but because i was thinking na its the end of the world for me. 1st year college pa bya ko when it happened and OSY pa jud akong uyab.i didnt tell my mom, sya ra nangutana nako.. murag 2 mos pa man tingali to akng tiyan ato. mothers always know jud, they can always tell if something is wrong.

i tell you,maglisod jud mo ana. as in it will be tough, specially kay dili mo prepared, financially and psychologocally. but kani ra jud akong ikasulti, put god in the center of ur relationship. it will really be a battle. pagpray mo together that you can survive the stress and trials kay it will test the both of you. ayaw decide dayun kay things would change between the two of you kay sooner or later either one of you will realize nga di na mao nga life iyang gusto nya magmahayay na dayun.

but babies are blessings. ako ato nga time, i was alone. very traumatic jud to nga experience. it didnt work out for us coz we were not prepared and we were very immature then. i guess what im trying to say is, the love that you have for each other now, you really have to take care of it coz that will get you through all of this. hold each other's hand and specially ikaw, you have to be strong for the two of you kay ikaw ang laki.ang experience niya now nga pregnant siya, that will have a very big effect on her...emotionally and psychologically. kumbaga, it will be a make or break for her. and whatever her disposition is, makita na sa inyong baby. you'll see.

on a lighter note, nindot kaau ng makita nimo imong baby. ma amaze ka at how little they are and then mudako lng ug kalit. ako bsan sa akong kalisod ato nga time (financially for the most part) wa jud ko namroblema ug gatas, meds, ug diaper sa akong baby kay inig mahurot na iyang diaper and wala na ko ipalit, maabot lng na kalit akong miga magbring ug vitamins, diapers and whatever. or akong sister in law or bsan kinsa, bsan among neighbors na d nako kaila. my prayers got me through the tough times so i hope it will also work wonders for the two of you sad. just keep the faith jud, He will never leave you empty. and di sd jud mo niya pasagdan. trust me on that one, maka attest jud ko.

[Soul Doctor]

See parents are not that scary after all.
As long as they know you love their daughter, then you are safe.

But one last advice bro.
Make it up with her parents.
Try to please them as much as you can.

What you did was very disappointing to them.
Do good deeds everyday.
Show them you are sorry for having their daughter pregnant and unprepared.
You owe them that much.

Don't just lay around whenever you are at their house.
Wash the dishes even if they do not want you to.
Insist on doing things in the name of love.
Say:
I want to do this because I love her.
And be sincere about it.

[nitto1320i]

usually the best practice is talk to the mother first since mothers usually has the way of thinking first before doing anything they will regret. (dapat close mo sa mother kay kumo imo ma dawat gikan sa papa kung dili). Never talk to the Father first in any means.

here are some advice to plan ahead:
1.) Talk to your GF first and plan something out before talking to both sides (assuming your both planning to get married)
2.) Talk to your parents and ask for advice. Pa kasaba lang sa (Naa naman dyud na..)
3.) talk to your GF's parents and tell them what your plans are.. (maskin pataka ka storya or bakak as long as naa kay plano basta makatubag lang dyud ka sa mga questions. ask your GF's advice for this.)
4.) Good Luck!!! you'll need it..

[babypaupau]

usually the best practice is talk to the mother first since mothers usually has the way of thinking first before doing anything they will regret. (dapat close mo sa mother kay kumo imo ma dawat gikan sa papa kung dili). Never talk to the Father first in any means.

here are some advice to plan ahead:
1.) Talk to your GF first and plan something out before talking to both sides (assuming your both planning to get married)
2.) Talk to your parents and ask for advice. Pa kasaba lang sa (Naa naman dyud na..)
3.) talk to your GF's parents and tell them what your plans are.. (maskin pataka ka storya or bakak as long as naa kay plano basta makatubag lang dyud ka sa mga questions. ask your GF's advice for this.)
4.) Good Luck!!! you'll need it..

mana man sya ni ingon.

[Soul Doctor]

usually the best practice is talk to the mother first since mothers usually has the way of thinking first before doing anything they will regret. (dapat close mo sa mother kay kumo imo ma dawat gikan sa papa kung dili). Never talk to the Father first in any means.

here are some advice to plan ahead:
1.) Talk to your GF first and plan something out before talking to both sides (assuming your both planning to get married)
2.) Talk to your parents and ask for advice. Pa kasaba lang sa (Naa naman dyud na..)
3.) talk to your GF's parents and tell them what your plans are.. (maskin pataka ka storya or bakak as long as naa kay plano basta makatubag lang dyud ka sa mga questions. ask your GF's advice for this.)
4.) Good Luck!!! you'll need it..

Read the previous posts bro.
Everything is fine now.

[babypaupau]

^^ actually sir, its just the tip of the iceberg. they're in for a big dive.

[kenjie86]

wa mn ko anang pang chx bro. .hehehe..

Built in na d i imo pagka buotan bro.. thats nice...

[kenneth182]

Built in na d i imo pagka buotan bro.. thats nice...

hehehe.. lain sd kaayo kong mo ingon kog chx boi ko bro. .hehehehe.. pinannga bya kaayo ko sa mama niya og sa akong uyab.. hehehe

thank you ninyo tanan..

[pael85]

bro.. usa rajud ako ikatambag nimu bro.... sulti-e dayon ang parents sa girl na mabdos siya ug ikaw ang amahan sa bata.... bahalag dili ka magpakasal or imu barong pakaslan ang girl...

kausa rana ang kasaba..... at least nagpakalalaki ka.. if kung dili ka ready... pakuyog sa imu parents...

be a man enough...