haha. It's funny how women say be yourself yet require from men things that would be contrary to "being yourself". I'd love to hear a woman tell the truth and say ... "it helps to be goodlooking, financially capable, smart, and does what I want". Couples being themselves and getting along are ideal in a relationship ... unfortunately we don't live in an ideal world. Many matches are made not in heaven and through "being yourself", but through lies and deceit shortly followed by self reflection of "why didn't it work out?" when it should have been overly obvious from the start. The small percentage of couples that this does not apply to will be happy until they find someone else. An even smaller percentage will stay together and be truly happy for the rest of their life. If you are one of the lucky few, stand up and do the happy dance.