MERGED: Gay Marriage in the Philippines

[Cascada]

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kayasa, kuhaa nang picture oi! those people who are in favor of this madness, e print na ninyo ang picture unya kan-a!

[bleedingboi]

With this highly homophobic society of ours, yes, the child might still get bullied. It's certainly a factor to consider when homosexual couples decide to be parents. But why are bullies not at fault here? You're saying the parents are in the wrong since they did not give in to bullying? Umm... What?

Really? Give in to bullying? That's you're best answer? That's the best way to live? Give in to bullies? It's practically no different from giving in to the demands of terrorists.

It's this specific wimpy attitude (and condoning it) that has kept us as a nation from progressing as a country that doesn't condone discrimination and a country that is tolerant and accepting of minorities with open arms.

But there are things that you might consider turning your back on just to preserve your child's normal future. Things that you will allow to prevail to avoid getting your child harrased or bullied. You cannot change this stereotype, kids will always bully no matter how you bang their heads with wrenches, it's like teaching an Alligator to be a vegetarian.

Like what I said in my previous post, For humanity's sake, give these kids a normal family.

[tingkagol]

But there are things that you might consider turning your back on just to preserve your child's normal future. Things that you will allow to prevail to avoid getting your child harrased or bullied. You cannot change this stereotype, kids will always bully no matter how you bang their heads with wrenches, it's like teaching an Alligator to be a vegetarian.

Like what I said in my previous post, For humanity's sake, give these kids a normal family.

A child needs to understand that if he (or his parents) have done nothing wrong, he should stand up against bullying.

But I completely understand your stance. Yes, it's literally a far cry in this society of ours. I guess it starts with completely purging bigotry out of the school institutions- the admin and faculty. If that's done, they can then better teach children the value of tolerance.

[bleedingboi]

A child needs to understand that if he (or his parents) have done nothing wrong, he should stand up against bullying.

But I completely understand your stance. Yes, it's literally a far cry in this society of ours. I guess it starts with completely purging bigotry out of the school institutions- the admin and faculty. If that's done, they can then better teach children the value of tolerance.

And for the record, it takes decades for one society to accept a new norm. Just like how many decades it took the white American population of accepting the fact, and allowing African -Americans to sit in front of buses.

[FreezedEntity]

Seriously, if you look at the pic it doesnt show as a gay couple. More like brothers! So if you are saying that two men can be good role models for a child? Hell No! Let's see if the child won't get bullied in school...even the teachers and adults around him will see a pitiful sight! And whose to be blamed? Not society! But the "same ***" parent. Why? Because they decided to "adopt" a child for their own selfish reason that they can "procreate" and have t heir very own "normal family."

Really? Or does these two dudes are too masculine for you to call them gay?

And for the record, it takes decades for one society to accept a new norm. Just like how many decades it took the white American population of accepting the fact, and allowing African -Americans to sit in front of buses.

Then let us fight for "acceptance".

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Sure the child will experience bullying.
But who doesn't? Even "normal" kids experience this.
Give in to bullying? Then that shows you're a coward.
That's when the parents come, to explain their child what's wrong and right.

[g0dmenuelz]

ataya anang nag kiss nga 2 ka laki oi.

[xjomar]

Binuang! Sumpaki kana sa kasulatan! :Ban:

[3nZ0y]

Rape and cannibalism are also practiced by many animals. I know your kind are animals so I kind of see the connection.

Oh, so we are resorting to ad hominem? Please try harder. BTW, this is not relevant. I was just trying to show how his statement was wrong.

1. Of course not. But majority of HIV carriers in industrialized countries for example (save for Africa and some very poor countries) are gay and bisexual men. In our country for example, kasagaran gi AIDS kay bayot animal.

Can you please show me the statistics?
Fun fact: ubang seaman kay magka AIDS after having s3x sa prosti sa mga lugar ma-adto nila. If dili ka motuo, naay usa ka ospital sa mandaue nga kasagaran naa didto kay mga hetero male with AIDS. But as far as the numbers are concerned, I am not sure asa ang majority. You seem to have more information on this, so please enlighten me.

2. Some are poor and not as gifted to afford multiple partners. All however aspire to bed more than 1 person at a given time.

And heterosexuals bed just one person in his lifetime. Seems legit.

3. True only because there are always exceptions to the rule (2% perhaps for homos3x males.) Otherwise this is a generally false statement.

Do you known any homosexual males by any chance? Because if you don't, I wonder where you got all of these information. Hearsay, perhaps?

4. Gay men are more likely to have more partners in their lifetime than most hetero males. It is common to find homos3xual males to have had a hundred s3xual partners in a span of a few years. Commitment is not something homos3xuals take seriously.

Seems like you know homosexuals really well. Hmmm...

5. Who mentioned religion?

Oh, you actually mentioned 'sanctity' in your previous post. So, either you don't know what you are talking about or you should enhance your vocabulary.

Sanctity-- a : the quality or state of being holy or sacred : inviolability
b plural : sacred objects, obligations, or rights

source: Sanctity - Definition and More from the Free Merriam-Webster Dictionary

Sure, and you would expect this kid going to school. Try to live a normal life, his friends goes to his house and sees his two dads kiss each other ( then comes the bullying). Wow, explicitly right into his childhood. He'll surely live a real good life.

What about we correct the mentality of the society nga there is nothing wrong with homosexuality? Remember: what is popular is not always right. So, molikay na lang ta sa sakto tungod kay lahi ang gituohan sa kadaghanan?

Take this example: naay bata nga adunay disability. Dako og chance nga ma bully siya. Unsa man ang sakto nga buhaton:

a. Pasanginlan ang disability
b. Paundangon og eskwela ang bata
c. Badlungon ang bully since there is absolutely nothing wrong with the child?

Seriously, if you look at the pic it doesnt show as a gay couple. More like brothers! So if you are saying that two men can be good role models for a child? Hell No! Let's see if the child won't get bullied in school...even the teachers and adults around him will see a pitiful sight! And whose to be blamed? Not society! But the "same ***" parent. Why? Because they decided to "adopt" a child for their own selfish reason that they can "procreate" and have t heir very own "normal family."

Please watch this: Two Lesbians Raise A Son And This Is The outcome. Zach Wahls Speaks About Family. - YouTube

Binuang! Sumpaki kana sa kasulatan! :Ban:

Di na lang ko mopatol ani kay maOT na ta maayo...

[3nZ0y]

I know you might not be interested. But I will let you on in one of my secrets.

I am a homosexual. Surprisingly, I did not care less about the argument on gay marriage before. After all, I do not have plans to get married myself. I lost trust in the grace of marriage. I had the same misconception that homosexuals may have multiple partners in their lives. So, marriage may just be violated. I thought, if even heterosexual marriage get divorced or annulled, the stakes are higher with homosexual couples.

But I realized I was being selfish: thinking about myself. I overlooked how some of my friends have good relationships with their partners. I failed to see how matured and respectable gays can keep faithful with their partners. I know naay mga bayot nga badlungon, but mo-focus lang ba ta nila ug langkatan usab nato og katungod ang ubang taron?

If that were the case, wagtangon na lang nato ang marriage altogether tungod sa kadaghan sa mga bana ug asawa nga badlungon ug nagluib sa ilang kaminyoon? Tungod sa kadaghan sa mga bana nga mopasakit sa ilang asawa physically, emotionally, financially? Otherwise that would be double-standard.

Again, ang issue diri is just equality. If di ka kauyon sa same s3x marriage, ayaw pakigminyo og same s3x. But RESPETUHA ang ganahan.

BTW, please do watch this: It Could Happen To You - YouTube!

[high_heels]

If you are that DEDICATED about fighting for same s@x marriage. Then your shallow reasoning here in istorya wont get you anywhere. Those who are against your claims and stand obviously til this very day still holds the same stand of "NO TO SAME S@X MARRIAGE."

You pointing out references are flawed, justifying your claims that it is a NORMAL and ALRIGHT for our society to accept your nonsense!

So my suggestion to you LGBT's.....if you want to be honestly heard....GO TO CONGRESS AND SENATE! ! ! Pag rally mo didto, or pag PINK parade ba mo para adto mo mag saba saba para ang mga tawong mo buhat ug balaod mismo ang ka dungog sa inyong gipadayag...kay ang mga istoryans diri igo ra nagpa gawas sad sa ilang opinion bahin sa wa pag angay ana inyong gusto.


Because obviously, you guys/gays who are insisting are NOT winning our ideals and our acceptance of it! Wala gihapon mo ka gets, bisag unsaon ninyo ug pilit ug youtube videos and pics....same ra gihapon among baragunan! Hahay....mga bayot gyud diay mo!

I know you might not be interested. But I will let you on in one of my secrets.

I am a homosexual. Surprisingly, I did not care less about the argument on gay marriage before. After all, I do not have plans to get married myself. I lost trust in the grace of marriage. I had the same misconception that homosexuals may have multiple partners in their lives. So, marriage may just be violated. I thought, if even heterosexual marriage get divorced or annulled, the stakes are higher with homosexual couples.

But I realized I was being selfish: thinking about myself. I overlooked how some of my friends have good relationships with their partners. I failed to see how matured and respectable gays can keep faithful with their partners. I know naay mga bayot nga badlungon, but mo-focus lang ba ta nila ug langkatan usab nato og katungod ang ubang taron?

If that were the case, wagtangon na lang nato ang marriage altogether tungod sa kadaghan sa mga bana ug asawa nga badlungon ug nagluib sa ilang kaminyoon? Tungod sa kadaghan sa mga bana nga mopasakit sa ilang asawa physically, emotionally, financially? Otherwise that would be double-standard.

Again, ang issue diri is just equality. If di ka kauyon sa same s3x marriage, ayaw pakigminyo og same s3x. But RESPETUHA ang ganahan.

BTW, please do watch this: It Could Happen To You - YouTube!

@3nzoy to borrow a quote from you..... "If di ka kauyon sa same s3x marriage, ayaw pakigminyo og same s3x. But RESPETUHA ang ganahan. " <----- respetua sad ang mga tawo nga di ganahan sa inyong ganahan! sabot?!