Originally Posted by
burning_ice
What hurts?
:: letting go of a person you've just learned to love
:: reminiscing the good times you shared together
:: shielding your heart to love somebody
:: trying to hide what you really feel
:: trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from youreyes
:: loving a person too much
:: giving up someone you never thought of giving up
:: having the right love at the wrong time
:: taking the risk to fall in love again
:: hiding your relationship from someone else
:: controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a friend
:: thinking of him/her every waking and sleeping moment knowing all the while that he/she never even thinks of you...
:: letting go because everytime you see the person, you only fall deeper
:: holding back only to find out when it's too late, you both felt the same way, but were only scared to lose each other so
much that you didn't let the feelings out
:: falling in love with someone you didn't mean to fall inlove with
:: finding the perfect girl...with only one problem....she doesn't love you...
:: helping the one you love court your friend
:: seeing the one you love crying for someone else
:: the waiting also hurts like hell
:: having to hear "... I've met someone"
:: agreeing to him/her wish to 'just be friends'.
:: giving him/her freedom back because 'he/she'd be happier with her/him'
:: asking you to 'forget that everything happened'and be 'normal' friends again
:: hearing that you're treated as just a brother or a sister
::hearing about his/her future plans with someone else when you know that you want him/her to share the future with you
:: you stopped being friends bcoz her bf/gf asked her/him to
:: being denied in front of people
:: telling you lies where he/she'd been when actually, he/she was with a 'new friend' or an 'old flame'
:: he/she told u he/she'd be leaving you to return to his/her ex (d one he/she left 4 u!)
:: breaking someone's heart
:: fighting for that one thing that would make you
happy
:: that is, holding on to a person who cannot
guarantee you his/her
commitment unless he/she fixes him/herself...then, you
are left hanging
for the moment...then he/she says, time will tell...
but you still
decided
to hope in him/her and trust him/her
:: PRETENDING you're OK when inside you're dying...
:: PRETENDING to be strong.... and RECOGNIZING your
weakness
:: lying in bed each night, thinking of that special
person you can
never
have...
:: being with someone you can't actually love...
:: pretending you don't love a person whom you
actually love...
:: being in love...
:: letting go even if you really don't want to...
having no right to
say
you are hurting because it was your decision
:: seeing the person you love get hurt because of
you... and not being
able to help that person...
:: having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the person
you love and
finding
out afterwards that things will never be the same
again when he/she
doesn't treat you with the same closeness as before
:: having to face the fact that someone is capable of
completely
destroying the wall that you have set for yourself,
leaving you weak
and
vulnerable
:: admitting that you love someove despite his/her
imperfections
:: finding out that the more you try to hate him/her,
the more you end
up
loving him/her, perhaps even more than before
:: realizing how stupid your mistakes were which led
to your break-up
:: the thought that someone used to really love you
and you loved
him/her
as well but you didn't give enough so he/she gave up
on you
:: Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY else....."
:: making a promise....and realizing that when the
time has come for
that
promise to be delivered....the commitment is no longer
there...
:: the hardest thing about love - believing it exists.
After you've been hurt...
...learn to forgive
...learn to trust and love again
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