When you love someone, set them free?

**nunobone** · 03-18-2005, 02:06 AM

yeah... sometimes, setting free doesnt mean a you love him at all....

its more like you are saying that, i cant give him/her what she/he wants.
and there's someone who can do better than me..
gear up! if you love him/her, just hold on tight! and fight!

love means holding on not letting go...
OT: that's what my gf told me when our relationship got off track before.. lols..

**KaTzKi** · 03-18-2005, 03:46 AM

true.

i love him.. but he was not happy wit me nymore.. n awas feeling the same way, not happy as in wit him.. but not happy wit "the things" that has happened between us.. the fights.. the distance -- killing us both.

settin him free really broke my heart. even up until today, i still cry because i love him still but everytime i cry, i always remind myself that "katz, u want him to be happy right? so jes be happy for him wherever he is or whoever he's wit, U - HIM >> it's jes not meant to be"

.. even if it means sacrificing my own happiness.

drama galore.. pero seriouso me. sigh.

**snussy** · 03-18-2005, 06:16 AM

true...

he wanted his freedom back..he said he needed space and wants to know more about himself..he really broke my heart,it was sooo painful..grabe..he was perfect..but there's nothing i can do if he doesnt want to be with me anymore..soo painful,but i really have to let him go and face reality..i kept on crying..never felt so down...

but thanks God,he came back...he realized he needed me..and then we realized that we would never give up on each other..no matter how difficult life would be..no matter how many trials would be in our path...since then, that experience made us love each other more than ever..char...

**jamescebu** · 03-18-2005, 12:50 PM

aGreE(,")

**cutieara** · 03-18-2005, 12:57 PM

ur not just letting him go, but ur also freeing urself from the heartaches and pains that will come along the way...

**koor** · 03-18-2005, 01:29 PM

very true, I was at that situation 5yrs. ago. . . very painful. . .

**digitalsuperman** · 03-18-2005, 01:56 PM

i think its true...

**cebutech** · 03-18-2005, 02:10 PM

if the person's not going to be happy with you. why not. by all means. set that person free.

it doesn't really matter anymore if u love the person or not. hell, i don't even think u call it love if u try to keep someone who wants to be free. it's just being selfish.

**thisbe.ara** · 03-18-2005, 06:17 PM

so true.

**P-Chan** · 03-18-2005, 09:00 PM

TRUE cause you can't force a person to love

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