the best way to know is to ask him...that simple!
i experienced that kinda sitch...my bestfrend is a guy, we were childhood frends...we were inseparable, as in super close...later on he started to fall for me but he kept it...he was too scared to tell me...and so he went on not telling me and kept his feelings...until, 1 day(it was my bday), he bids goodbye...it was suppose to be a goodbye kiss and im used to it but it was different...he kissed me on the lips and it was not a smack as well, to my surprise, i didnt know how to respond or i ddnt respond at all...and then he realized that i was totally shocked by his actions...he apologized then left...i was so bothered and so was he...for days, things changed, we were both uncomfortable already...he was thinking that i got mad at him while i was thinking of ways how to ask him wat that kiss mean...then finally, i decided to call him and ask him f we cud talk...and he was so glad i did that coz he wanted to talk to me as well but he ddnt had the courage coz he was scared i might reject him...to cut the story short, we talked and he admitted that he was falling in love with me and all those cheesy stuffs...but we both ended with questions that made us decide a mutual agreement...i asked him, "are u wiiling to risk our frendship for this?wat f we dnt work out as lovers?do u think we can still treat each other the same way we do now?and wat f we fall apart?can u live without me?----bcoz i cant..." so he realized that he's not ready and that he doesnt wanna lose me...and so we decided to remain as good old frends...it was awkward at first but we got used to it...until now, we are still happy together as bestfrends...
