The Myth of Monogamy

[tokidoki]

Haven't heard of that show or movie since am not that updated on that stuff..But, I'd look into it..I think that's a rather negative way of looking at marriage, but yeah, it surely is not a win-win situation for a guy to get married, but it is not for the girl too..So, it's a compromise between the two persons who want to get on it..I'm not into marriage either..I just want loyalty when one person enters a relationship, be it marriage or not..

I believe Bullsh*t is on MAXXX channel every Mondays at 10:30pm. But I downloaded mine off the net kai ganahan nako pakyawon ilang episodes. heheh... makalingaw man gud coz pang asar kaayo sa mga normal beliefs nato ranging from Feng Shui and Clairvoyance to Bible and Love.

Para nako marriage is in favor sa babae. She gets to call the shots and it would be illegal for us guys to say no.

[Soul_Captive]

Para nako marriage is in favor sa babae. She gets to call the shots and it would be illegal for us guys to say no.

Interesting POV..This got me thinking..Now, is this the reason why most,if not all, of the women I know are looking forward to getting married? Some even see it as the ultimate goals of their existence..Tsk.tsk..I'd say, marriage is a not so wise decision..There will always be changes in a person..Yeah, it can be a challenge, but when the challenge gets too much to handle, the separation is sometimes too painful but unavoidable..Unfortunately, it is going to be really complicated for all the parties involved..Or maybe, I'm just too cynical about it..

One thing is for sure (for me)..Marriage is not a hellhole for just one end of the sexes..It is the same thing for both genders..

[tokidoki]

Interesting POV..This got me thinking..Now, is this the reason why most,if not all, of the women I know are looking forward to getting married? Some even see it as the ultimate goals of their existence

You could say it is but not entirely. Coz most women don't realize that they have more freedom without it. But lets face it, women have the "needy" (the constant longing to be loved, admired and wanted) characteristic. Ok lang na but some women have more than a lot of it to the point it borders on an emotional disorder na. heheh...

..Tsk.tsk..I'd say, marriage is a not so wise decision..There will always be changes in a person..Yeah, it can be a challenge, but when the challenge gets too much to handle, the separation is sometimes too painful but unavoidable..Unfortunately, it is going to be really complicated for all the parties involved..Or maybe, I'm just too cynical about it..

Well, a man and a woman who didn't grow up together have more chances of getting into more conflicts than those who did (like your bro and sis). This is a proven study as to why most marriages fail. You put two strangers in one place naa gyud gubot. Mao na incest is good to some cultures. You can tolerate your annoying sibling but not someone who is outside your gene pool hahaha...

Maka observe gyud ko ani na when a wife/hubby complains about your sibling you always stand by the side of your sibling than them. In marriage you get more leeway to be defiant compared to "hay, igsoon nako. what can i do?"

[Soul_Captive]

You could say it is but not entirely. Coz most women don't realize that they have more freedom without it. But lets face it, women have the "needy" (the constant longing to be loved, admired and wanted) characteristic. Ok lang na but some women have more than a lot of it to the point it borders on an emotional disorder na. heheh...



Well, a man and a woman who didn't grow up together have more chances of getting into more conflicts than those who did (like your bro and sis). This is a proven study as to why most marriages fail. You put two strangers in one place naa gyud gubot. Mao na incest is good to some cultures. You can tolerate your annoying sibling but not someone who is outside your gene pool hahaha...

Maka observe gyud ko ani na when a wife/hubby complains about your sibling you always stand by the side of your sibling than them. In marriage you get more leeway to be defiant compared to "hay, igsoon nako. what can i do?"

Which, to cut the crap short, boils down to WHY GET MARRIED in the first place..
It's harder (and more hassle and expensive) to separate the married than those who are in plain cohabitation..
As for the needy women, I've tried to deny this before but it really seems to be true as I get to know more women in the early to late 20's who are all talking about their getting hitched dilemmas..And to think that they have their own jobs and are earning quite well in it that I cannot comprehend their need for a man when they can provide for themselves..Ambot lng ui..Mao ni usa sa mga traits sa mga babaye na di nko kaya madefend..Tsk.tsk..

[babytash]

depends on the man. if lalaki cya nga napul.an na sa kaboang, den the more chance nga faithful cya pero if ignoy pa cya, nah dakong purohan nuon na

[tokidoki]

that's why mintras di paka minyo. pagtagbaw. aron walay mahay.

[tokidoki]

heheh... i couldn't resist posting this pic from the sig of another istoryan.

[Dorothea]

When you find the right person, marriage can be a real blessing. It really is. I've been married for a couple of years now, but I still look forward to seeing him after a long day at work. I still laugh out loud at his jokes. He still makes me smile. And as corny at it sounds, if I was given an extra day off at work, I'd still choose to spend it with him, just hanging out at home, doing nothing special.

And to this day, I still feel extremely lucky to have him in my life.

I hope walay magsuka sa akong ka corny LOL

[jash_ville]

heheh... i couldn't resist posting this pic from the sig of another istoryan.

muzikfreakah?
moderator sa buy n sell sah?

[tokidoki]

mura. hehehe...

nadunggaban siguro to imo boyfriend dear. kai wa naman ni balik.