Could you forgive someone if they cheated on you?

[anjerika]

---

maybe yes, maybe no. but for sure he has already lost all my trust and should try harder to win it back.

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

we can always forgive, as time goes by hatred or anger will slowly vanish giving forgiveness a room in your heart... but the question, i suppose, should have been "can you still accept him back in your life after knowing he cheated on you?" because i believe, once a person betrayed you especially someone who meant a lot to you, he will cause you enormous pain yet since love is there eventually forgiving is not impossible although questions and doubts will linger inside you whether or not the person deserves another chance or if you are still willing to trust him and accept him back as part of your life...if this is the situation you're facing right now, then, it's your call...we can only give you pieces of advice but in the end your decision matters...besides, you're the one who knows him better than anyone else here...so i suggest for you to weigh things out...let not just your heart decide, this time your mind needs to re-evaluate everything...this time let your mind do it's part too...

[mio]

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

[jeanine11280]

I can forgive but I cannot forget...

[makegamaru]

pasaylo.on jud pero kung mag.abusar na gani aw gg

[bhabymhae]

dEpendi also sa CHeat that he done. Kung naka affect ba jud maau sa akong life,
Naa man jud time na u will forgive that man couse of ur love but depende na sa kaso sa cheat nga nabuhat gud, example if love ka niya but he is cheating or having a relationship with other guy. if love ka niya di na siya mangita lain dba?

[nijazared]

If the girl would really show that she regretted cheating on me and is sincere on winning me back then I would. But it wouldn't really be the same as before...she has to make it up to me.

[Edifier]

Of course, Forgive gyud. Ingon pa nila, "Ginoo man gani nagpasaylo, kita pa kaha?!"

Sometimes, depending on the situation, forgiving may be difficult. But it is always best to forgive. But personally, though I have forgiven the person, they just have to win back my trust.

[PseudoSurgeon]

I can forgive that person but di najud ko mubalik in a relationship with him.

[elisa]

Of course, Forgive gyud. Ingon pa nila, "Ginoo man gani nagpasaylo, kita pa kaha?!"

Sometimes, depending on the situation, forgiving may be difficult. But it is always best to forgive. But personally, though I have forgiven the person, they just have to win back my trust.

...super agree. in my mind, kabaw ko na dapat i-forgive but i don't know kung kaya sako powers kung ako husband kay mo-cheat on me. kanang uyab2x, murag mas kaya ra siguro sa ako buot. pero kung minyo na gani, murag LISOD kaayo.
...and agree agree agree again na once ako na maforgive, another step na pud na ang earning back my trust. i'm not even sure if kaya pa nako to stay in a relationship with the person. another LISOD. haha.
...*knock on wood* maytag i will never have to encounter this dilemma in real life.