Which is Worse, Regretting the words you said or the words you didn't say?

[RiXx]

the word's you didn't say because you have not let the other person know how you think. that makes it frustrating.

[mc23]

the words that i did nt say because if that words i keep is hurting me its keeps me lonely

[rjje]

the words you didn't say.

[nijazared]

words you did not say uie...mas maayo ng nasulti ang gibati kysa wala jud nigawas gikan nimo...dako kaayo pagmahay nko sauna kay ang ultimate crush nko nga I thought wa jud koy chance ganahan sad diay nko...kung nisulti lang jud ko niya kami jud unta to magkauyab...

[bowee]

its a a double-edged sword if you ask me....


TS, for me... its the words I said... Why?? because you cant change already the words you uttered.. whereas the words you didnt say (to that person) can and still be said in time....

when you say something but regret at the end for uttering that word... that is for me the worst jud... you cant bring it anymore and you cant take or recount those words ever.. (once you said it) It will be forever a trademark of something good..or something bad.... it depends on how you interpret it...na tatak na ug d na na mapapas pa...

not saying the words.. is to your advantage still... you can ultimately say this word sooner or later man gud.. so sa binisaya pa.. dili mausab ang unsa mang 'status quo' ninyong duha... you can work this to your advantage.. that is my take....

[khenj007]

di oi. mas lain ng knang wala nimo na ingon kai yod end up thinking what could have been if imo to na ingon.

[3nZ0y]

Thinking about what-ifs, for me, is worse than staying firm to (or perhaps regretting) what you had said. If you said something that you regret afterwards (although I had long abandoned regret from my vocabulary) you have yourself to blame it. But if you did not say something you feel like saying, then you will have the uneasy feeling of uncertainty. There is also the feeling of wanting to blame yourself for being cowardly while thinking twice and justifying the actions with the thought that you were merely being cautious.

For me, what-ifs are like torture to your emotional and psychological self. And that is by far worst.

[Psychopathia]

Depende sa situation pero akong situation karon: Regretting the words you didn't say.

[gurlneo17]

para nako noh, Regretting the words you didn't say

pero, in my case, wala ko mag regret kay ni sulti man ko niya before mi nag part-ways..haha

[THE KID]

the latter......................