what if your love is a lier,and you caught him,and he need you in your life

[yvonne6]

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value yourself first before others can see your value. if u see yourself being unable to live happily without your current partner then the person might see this as a weakness and will use it to abuse you. guys are impressed with independent women. this is why a lot of martyr women are just taken for granted. not everyone can be killed by kindness

[iang]

ngita lain sis. daghan pa fish sa dagat.
Liars forget quickly. Some of them lie and start building on that lie to the level they forget the starting point. And when you refer to them, they will tell you another lie!

[HeartStops]

" You needed me in your life, you know what your not just a LIAR but your also a Selfish Self-centered bastard "

[redjvshopnshop]

"i love the way you lie"! part 1 ug part 2!

i know im a liar, if she ever try to efin leave again, imma tie her to the bed and set this house on FIRE!!!

[dropdeadgorgeous]

metaphorically in the same situation as the TS.... it's going to be head over heart for me!^^ it's not gonna be my loss anyway...

lesson learned: I'm not going to be too trusting and too giving anymore!

[jakobe_04]

quetion: why do you need him man?

[ace_82]

learn to love your self, don't close your mind.
be open to possibilities that there are other person better than him.
he does not deserve to have you. . . hayahaya gud niya no?
sakit imo dughan sige huna huna niya,liar will always be a liar.
aw ikaw if ganahan ka mag mata og morning permi.

[-]chong<3]

If you really love teh person, you don\'t hafta lie. You always get caught no matter how you\'re good at it. If yer partner keeps on lying, give 'em a rope and let 'em necks hang loose. lolx

[annerhexian]

When a person lie to me I will got hurt,depressed,depleted and all negative mixed emotions rumbling in my little head, but then, I will not let him go (not yet)until that person no longer needed me in his life especially in worst time.... and if consequences arises and that person is already okey the "needed" part, then honestly, i let go and withdraw everything. Coz in the first place, he lied, the trust is no longer there in which my mind can trigger the "trust" part that was broken and he didnt even do a move to patch it neither mend it, so whats the use of continuing.. so, therefore, relationship is damaged and become weaker than you thought...
Second, I may let go to the relationship part but never the "person" I once knew for the sake of the "used relationship" in which, I still value a person validity to cling for him and help him in my own ways of knowing and my own way of reaching him out but never expect things to rekindle an old flame for it is much worst than the denial part.

So to speak, I wont let go to the person as long as he "needed" me in a CERTAIN ASPECT of which my mind can tolerate and accept but, I will let go to the relationship for trust, respect and everything is broken the moment he LIED to me.

and if that person will tell me, MOVE ON, LEts move on.
Follow him for along the way, I felt I done my part and so, I wont turn back again, for this is the part, the GUY NO LONGER NEEDED ME in any aspect...in any aspect of his life... and thats what we call, LESSONED LEARNED and REALITY. [manta deli ka mo abot og self pity ani na part]hehehehe



Did you get my point?Follow your instinct and dont be blinded.. its a matter of choice per situation per person....

PS. If you felt, the needed part is you have the capability of helping him, then help him if kaya nimo.... but if dili kaya, then dont. YOU, Yourself NEEDED you as well, as much others needed you. SET LIMIT.
Learn to value more of your self than others.
Coz when in times that the person gives up on you, there is no one to lend but yourself alone, friends and family but mostly, it will be yourself, my dear.
So kung kaya, go.. pero kung dili kaya..stop. and DECIDE.