He made me PARANOID.. :'(

[jalson_ent]

try ni Sis...try to avoid him lng sa...kay if we talk about space.murag daku na cguro space imo gihatag...kuhaa ang duwaan nga gilabay sa bata, if makit-an ka niya na imo gikuha..he would want it back...Typical of human nature..You value things kung wala na nimo...You owe it to yourself..if he comes back,then imo na...kung dili mubalik then move on...FIRST LOVE NIMO?

[bowee]

hmm.. from my analogy.. naay problema imong bf...

if and what his problems are.. iyaha ug sya ra jud ang makasulti ana sa imoha...

My advice to you sis, instead of hating his friends.. why not befriend one of them.. .ask him /her about sa ilang mga laag sa imong bf... instead of loathing his friend.. make a friend to one of them.. have that friend as your eyes and ears... so that bsag asa man manlaag imong uyab, kuyog ana iyang circles of friends.. naa kay mata ug dunggan kung asa sila... though I would think not all informations are shared sa friend nya nimo but at least you can size up na unsa ilang mga gpangbuhat...

Secondly... I think your bf misses you a lot... though as foolish as it may sound... d cya maka express sa iyang feelings nga gmingaw cya nimo... iyaha nalang ipadagan sa paglipay lipay sa iyang mga amigo ug amiga didto sa Toledo...

Perhaps if you can talk to him, asked him this, Gusto ba ka nga mu quit nalang ko sa akong work dire so that I can be with you whole time dha sa Toledo? See what his answers are....

If naa cyay gtago nimo.. grabe jud na ka balibad dayon.. pero sometimes, we guys hate to admit our weakness.. and your bf weakness is that, as much as he would really like to be with you para kamo jud magkakuyog.. d naman gud pwede because your both torn between your work and the distance sad...

It's either you or him has to make a sacrifice if your relationship would still work.. either you sacrifice your job (by quitting) and go back to Toledo and find a job there, so that you can be close to him... OR the mostly likely scenario is he could quit his job and be here in the city to be closer with you...

Give and take ra na sis...

Now if your bf isnt considering this propositions that I'm telling you right now... then I'm sorry, your bf is not worth an effort of sticking to...

If that someone doesnt make an effort for himself to change.. what good can you bring a change on him if he doesnt like to make that change at all... diba??

[toxxxic]

Oh and I forgot to mention that one time his first love texted him and when I asked him if he replied he said "NO" but when i check on his sent messages, he did..

[bowee]

communications is the key sis... tungod lang tingali sa busy nimo sa work.. nangluod na nimo imong bf... sometimes ang guy nag need na ug more or less a mom and a gf.. rolled into one....

pamper him and care for him like sometimes a mother would care to a son... sa sobra nato ka busy sa atong work.... we sometimes forget the reasons why we work in the first place...

and that is to earn enough money to someday settle down.. with the one we love....

[toxxxic]

hmm.. from my analogy.. naay problema imong bf...

if and what his problems are.. iyaha ug sya ra jud ang makasulti ana sa imoha...

My advice to you sis, instead of hating his friends.. why not befriend one of them.. .ask him /her about sa ilang mga laag sa imong bf... instead of loathing his friend.. make a friend to one of them.. have that friend as your eyes and ears... so that bsag asa man manlaag imong uyab, kuyog ana iyang circles of friends.. naa kay mata ug dunggan kung asa sila... though I would think not all informations are shared sa friend nya nimo but at least you can size up na unsa ilang mga gpangbuhat...

I have tried befriending some of them yet most of them have a perception that I am maldita and infact I am not. They have the perception of me being maldita because since December issue happened I have blocked some of them in facebook from my bf's account since I have access to that. I can't stand anyone trying to break us apart or have the intention to.

[toxxxic]

I don't think he's happy with you Sis.. Talk to him about it..Ask him kung unsa gyud iya plano sa inyo duha. Tell him the truth nga wala naka ganahi sa mga nahitabo...do not prolong the agony..Usik ang luha ug oras. Be with someone who appreciates and respects you..

I have confronted him about all the things that have happened and he said that if only he can turn back time then he wouldn't do the things that will hurt me.. He said that he will change for the better.. I hope it's not too late.. Kapoyan baya jud ang tao..

[bowee]

I have tried befriending some of them yet most of them have a perception that I am maldita and infact I am not. They have the perception of me being maldita because since December issue happened I have blocked some of them in facebook from my bf's account since I have access to that. I can't stand anyone trying to break us apart or have the intention to.

I SEE... hhmmm..... Perhaps.. then, this is where you have made the mistake.... Sa sobra nimo ka control sa imong bf.. (Maybe before sa 3 years sa inyong relationship.. your world is the only world you want him to see.. ) I would agree that perhaps he might be choked up already.. and his friend is his other world that he can just be who he is.. carefree and the attitude of 'devil may-care' attitude... In any relationship.. dont put a noose or a rope to your partner.. the more you tighten that rope.. the more he/she would try to escape it.. mulugnot ba..... Again, its never too late to build a 'bridge' to his friends.. or friend.... you can still make this relationship work.. if you don't put a wall to yourself sad.. to his friends...

[schizophrenicpanic]

If you won't mind.. akong sumpayan ha...


May 2011
Me and My Boyfriend, Together with some friends are watching the PACQUIAO-MOSELY Fight..
And at about the middle of the fight... Right at the start of round 5, I somehow feel POWERFUL, like all of Paquiao's powers have bestowed on me, it could be brought on by the beer we have been drinking and I may just be a little nauseous but no, I really feel like something has come upon me, then for a second in time, I black out! Like a Twilight Zone, I saw the glimpse of my whole LOVE LIFE like a DVD in 20x fast forward mode, and as I was watching everything that has been done unto me, I felt all of the hurt that I should have pondered on all those times this Man has hurt me. I suddenly felt so much self pity, feeling so messed up that I felt all the emotions have given me even more power! and after that quick glimpse back into time, I snap out of my unconsciousness and feel myself warp back to the place where me and my boyfriend were watching the match, and then I saw, there in front of me, eyes looking upon me with so much interest and question, only then I realize that my boyfriend was calling out my name! "Babes? Babes! Ngano ka oe!? Oki raka diha?? Pagsure ha!"
The moment I heard his voice, I felt a sudden rush of anger, converted into POWER filling up my body!
And out of nowhere, all the pain, the hurt, the suffering bursted out!
I BODEGA him with all my might!! Feeling the Power of Manny Paquiao! I landed Jab after jabs, Straight after Straight, straight into that good for nothing son of a B*tch's face! and I saw him get knocked down!
I now realize 6-8 People are now trying to stop me, holding me and grasping my arms with all their might to prevent me from inflicting more damage, but again, I felt like I was possessed, with one might fling of my arms, I brush them all off and sent them flying a couple of meters away from me, and then on I continued my onslaught! I know used some kicks to the groin, and a more ground and pound!

At this moment, I felt like another spirit has bestowed into me, and I felt the power of GEORGE "RUSH" ST. PIERRE! I continued landing elbows and Dakolz to his head, and then I finished him of with a Rear Naked Choke! I felt him tap my arms as if to say he surrenders but I felt even more anger! for everything he has done to me! I knew he deserves much worse than this! I let go of my Rear Naked Choke and took his arms to execute an arm bar! this is when, I felt no resistance from him at all!
and then, for a moment, all goes slow motion, I see all his friends shouting at me! "Hoi! Hoi! Uwanga na ninyo, Undang na intawn dai!" I then realize some of members of his family are now in the room looking shocked at what is happening, for a moment I felt embarrassed, Devilish and Satanic but then, another quick glimpse flashes in front of me.. all those pictures I saw of him gallivanting on other girls, all the ignorance, and the treatment he has given me! I then felt an even more powerful feeling, possessing my body and taking over my soul!

And then I saw him! His eyes were engulfed in green flames, with horns bigger than his head, and wings as big has his huge red body, his face looked liked a primeval dinosaur, and i noticed he was sporting a enormous flaming sword!
then I felt like all the light in the world had turned off! like the sun has gotten eclipsed by a huge mass of flames! I then turned towards my boyfriend's unrecognizable, extremely beaten up face and felt........................ NOTHING!
I FELT NOTHING FOR THAT SELFISH, PEAR BRAINED TWAT!
and as I lie there, having locked his arms in an arm bar position, I then, channel all my strength into pulling his arm! I pulled it so hard it snapped! and then, now I as I am standing up, I realize I was holding his hands, arms down to his shoulders that have been completely decapitated!

My Boyfriend's body now lying on the floor, feeling the the life force slowly gushing out of him....


TO BE CONTINUED.. KAPOY NA.. hehe...
Sorry wa lang koi lingaw...

[toxxxic]

try ni Sis...try to avoid him lng sa...kay if we talk about space.murag daku na cguro space imo gihatag...kuhaa ang duwaan nga gilabay sa bata, if makit-an ka niya na imo gikuha..he would want it back...Typical of human nature..You value things kung wala na nimo...You owe it to yourself..if he comes back,then imo na...kung dili mubalik then move on...FIRST LOVE NIMO?

I had a past relationship before but I consider him as my first love since we've been through a lot!. We've been together for 4 years and 3 months now.. This is perhaps the most difficult trial in our relationship so far, I hope everything will be better again..

[redjvshopnshop]

TS....
if you did your part, then have you seen the big picture?,GOSPELofROCH have a point but we could not apply it in everyman/woman, kai bisan kaluha lahi2 ug terms ug styles sa pangisip. I could not say nga mao ni mao na buhata kai in the of the road ikaw ra japon ang mag face sa consequences sa choice nga imo ghimo. rare ra dai mo mag ka chika? medyo lisud2 jud na.

i know you DESERVE more... naa man daghan dnha nga mas deserving sa imong love, maintain balance sa inyung relationship daghan jud ug ups and downs, for him wla xa gbuhat dautan, ipa realize or pasabta xa sa imong side about ani. u know sis taas pa ang panahon. try to work things out but f d najud mada aw saguli ug sparkle o jazz ba hehehehehe