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    Default He made me PARANOID.. :'(


    It all started last July 2010, My boyfriend and I were 3 years and 6 months that time and out of the blue, he confessed nga wala pa xa naka get over sa iyang first love. I was shocked, hurt and speechless, wala ko nag expect ato and wala ko kabalo unsaon pag react, we end up crying. He said wala na nuon xa plano manguyab ug balik sa iyang first love kay she was a playgirl. I saw the sincerity in him that he love me so much so we moved on.

    December 2010
    During their Christmas party, he got drunk. Thanks to technology and facebook, nakita ang mga ebidensya. I saw a picture of him kissing a girl, sa cheeks ra nuon but irregardless it is still a kiss!. There was another picture showing him nga pirting agbay ug mga girls!. I was furious!. I confronted him and ang excuse pa jud kay i was drunk and i don't know what i'm doing.. bla.. bla.. bla.. totally lame!. Pirti nakong hilak, the pain was unbearable but in the end, forgive lang gihapon nako xa but never ever will i forget..

    January 2011
    My boyfriend lives in Toledo and I live in Mandaue and since we don't get to see each other that often we rely on chat and texts. We usually chat during the night since I work graveyard and unlike any other company, the company that I work for allows me to access any site and as well as download any application. So nag chat mi, tapos ni out xa pero sa kadugay niya nibalik ni text nalang ko nga asa na xa, ang gi reply niya ni-attend daw xa ug birthday party sa iyang silingan. Wala ra ko ato, wala pud ko ni reply and ni miss call xa, so nag work nalang ko. Around 5AM wala xa ni text kung naka uli na ba xa so I texted him if asa na xa and to no avail i received no response. Mga 8AM na xa naka reply ana xa nga nahutdan daw xa load, karon ra daw xa ka load and I was thinking naka miss call pa gani xa last night. He thinks I'm that stupid to beleive such so I confronted him again and he confessed that he attended a despidida party diay and he didn't tell me coz the people he was with were the same people he was with during their Christmas party. In the end, forgive lang gihapon nako xa but never ever will i forget..

    February 2011
    Valentines day was heartbreaking for me. He didn't give me anything at all even a simple card would suffice. Dugay pa jud au xa ni call nako to greet me. I was utterly disappointed. He was on duty from 7AM to 3PM sa Toledo so wala sad jud mi nagkakita. Later that night, nagka chat mi and I asked him how his day was, ni ana xa nangadto daw sila grand mall nangaun with his colleagues. Days after, thanks to technology and facebook, nakita NASAD ang mga ebidensya. In reality, paghuman diay niya adto sa grand mall, nangadto sila sa may dagat with karaoke, didto sila nangaon sa iyang mga colleagues and naa pa jud pic nga gigunitan xa sa isa ka girl. More or less same people during their Christmas party pero wala tong girl nga iyang gi kissan.. I mean wala lang jud xa nag effort nga adtuon ko sa among office?. nga 8PM pa man akong duty?. Gipalabi jud niya iyang mga kauban kaysa nako?. hahaaaaaaaays.. In the end, forgive lang gihapon nako xa but never ever will i forget..

    March 2011
    Attend nasad xa bday party sila kuyog atong mga people pag Christmas party. This time, for a change, he told the truth, hubog nasad xa pero at least no evidences left nga nagpabadlong nasad xa. I was pissed off since he told me nga dili xa mag overnight pero in the end, he stayed. God knows what ang nahitabo..

    So now, I am traumatized and paranoid. Everytime mu ana xa nga nana sad party I will always think of bad thoughts. We were college classmates and he was not like this before. He doesn't drink nor smoke. I blame the people he is working with, I loathe them..

    Saying was right "When someone betrays you, it just takes seconds to lose trust in them, and if you forgive them it takes a lifetime to rebuild that trust you once had in them."

    What do you think should I do istoryans?.

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    Default Re: He made me PARANOID.. :'(

    maghuwat pa ka og april nga scene??

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    ka relate jd ko nmu sis, i always forgive my bf before and it`s not working that way anymore ky abusahan ra jd ka. pra lang nko ha, base on my experience, it`s better to let go, the earlier, the better... preha nko gipaabot pa jd nko ug years but at least never too late. isa pa nkapalisud ana, lagyo mong duha maglisud kag cge ug monitor nia mahasol raka pati imong trabaho.

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    buwagi!! what can you get from him if he always has these excuses..

    mag sakit ra gyud ka, and sya permi maka ikyas kai imo mn sad sya i.forgive..

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    I don't understand ngano na in-ani nani xa, he changed.. Mabuhi ra gani ko dili mukuyog sa akong colleagues nya xa kay kailangan jud daw kay bonding daw and so on, ayha ra ba daw xa mag-inani kung minyo nami.. I always try my best to make him happy and dili gani nako kaya mapasakitan xa nya in-aniun ra ko niya..

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    ahahahahahaha

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    Quote Originally Posted by toxxxic View Post
    I don't understand ngano na in-ani nani xa, he changed.. Mabuhi ra gani ko dili mukuyog sa akong colleagues nya xa kay kailangan jud daw kay bonding daw and so on, ayha ra ba daw xa mag-inani kung minyo nami.. I always try my best to make him happy and dili gani nako kaya mapasakitan xa nya in-aniun ra ko niya..
    you`re just prolonging your agony sis... huna2.a ug maau kung kinsa jd alkansi kaau sa inyong situation. the decision is still up to you pero since nangutana mnka namu, d na jd na maau oe. makakita pa kag daghan deserving pra sa imong time, dedication and love and not just for someone like him who`s so unfair.

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    @toxxic: maybe you are too kind sa inyuhang relationship.. or maybe you had some flaws during your conflicts.. i dunno lng ha, or maybe sd sa mga kakuyog nya, na influensayahan na sya..

    maka relate man pd ko ana kai mao pd nai reason sa pag buwag namo sa akong ex, being with friends most of the time rather than your gf..

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    sos, tanan man cguro babae ingun ani, akong uyab sad ingun ani, manglaag ra gni mi sa akong mga barkda, all boys maglain nang otok, kay siya daw mka himu ra dli manglaag sa iyang barkada, sum-ol sad baya cge mos sturya or kuyog.

    It is healthy for everyone to mingle and talk to others. It's one way of releasing your stress and every 5 min conversation to a person increases your intelligence.

    feel nko wlay gibuhat sayup imung BF, ikaw ra ang Paranoid, aw halos tanan babae ingun ana, ako na gisultian ako uyab sa ingun ana nga behavior, ako siya gi ingnang paranoid kau siya sa akong mga lihok, (and in my line of work i need to talk to different people everyday)...sos grabeng away atong ako siya gi ingnan ana nga paranoid ra kau. lolz

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    One of the reason nganu namakak imung BF as imuha because you are not open to him about ingun ana.
    wla cguro ka kabantay nga natook na imung BF sa imung pagka strickto or higpit kau. i was once in his shoes, aw maski krn , usahay, lolz

    lahi baya ming mga laki, kabaw nami dli mo sugot amung mga uyab pero boring man gud kung 24/7 mag cge ramug storya so mamakak nlng mi para mka ginhawa ug tarong. It doesnt mean nga we don;t love our GF's it's just that ....magwild man gni ang ero tangkalon, tao naba....ka G ka?

    Give him some space, maybe you need it sad

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