There is no use crying over spilled milk. Come to think of it, in three years time, when you look back at how you reacted right now you will just laugh at yourself and how silly you reacted. The moments that you used to dwell on love that was gone had been wasted. Why not use it instead to enjoy yourself?
Go out with friends--positive actions ba. Kahibawo man ko nga bisan mo go out ka makahinumdom ghapon ka. But sigeha di ba one day you will realize that you also fell out of love--naunhan lang ka (inspired by Bob Ong).
Healing takes time. Give time time. But then again, mas dali maalim ang samad kung imohang tambalan, dili ni nimo laksion para maayo. Hope you get what I mean.