
Originally Posted by
CocoCrunch
I agree. I can most relate to your hate/love you've mentioned.
A perfect example is my father. He has 5 kids and a plain housewife. His resume consists of 38pages. just imagine how qualified and overqualified he is for positions we can never get. BUT he's lazy and just as miserable as everyone else with low self esteem. I was raised by my grandmom for 16yrs and started to work at 19yrs old and eventually became the head of the family. Ako ra jud ang ilang gihatag sa akong lola.
I am always bitter to my father for NOT being choosy.
He now works in the government -just monitoring water pipes and sitting all his hours in a dam* nipa hut. with a P285/day wage for his 5kids (2 in college, 1 with a live in partner - both have no work). He was not being choosy so for the sake that he has a job and he is earning, he never looked for anything else-he never chose to do better. Furthermore, (drama na kaayo.lol) since i was being choosy and realized that my family is in dire need of financial solutions, I took risks and did everything I can. I was always following the preferences I set and have been maximizing my time to do better in things I do.
My point is, there's also good things for being choosy. It's a win-win situation though.
ps, OT: ive just turned 24yrs old today

I think mka relate pd ko nimu in a way but I'm still not a head of the family but way to go for you. We just have to gamble sometimes to get the things that we would want and to happen in our lives.
belated happy bday bro!